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A Useless Person - October 24th 2011, 12:14 AM

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I hate being a cry baby but I just don't know what to do. I know I have no right to be upset. I mean, I was adopted at an age where I can't even remember a life before it. My parents love me, and I've never gone without, and yet I can't help but feel sad. I know I have no right to be, and I always just try to ignore it and get on with life, but I just can't keep going on like this. I feel like I'm just a waist of oxygen. I'm not smart, I'm not pretty, and I have no real talents. People that I've been around for years don't even notice me, and I must be so forgettable because when I speek noone seems to hear me. I'm to shy to even make small talk with people I've been in school with for years, and I could count the amount of people I talk to in a month on my fingers, if not one hand. Even things I love I feel like I'm bad at, and I always seem to mess everything up. I'll be out on my own in a year, and I just don't know what to do. I don't know how I'l make it in the world by myself because I'm bad at everything, and don't have the nerve to make myself heard. I feel like if I was gone noone would even notice. I've always just been that weired, quite girl, so why would they? I'm just another girl in the room. No one to be remembered.
   
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Re: A Useless Person - October 24th 2011, 05:31 AM

Hey lovely,

I have one important thing to start with. YOU DO DESERVE TO BE SAD. emotions make up a huge part of us, and as soon as we allow them to exist, then maybe we can address them.

So what i see first too is a low self esteem. I KNOW you are NOT a waste of space, because what i see is someone who CARES about where they are in life. Thats what seems to be causing anxiety is that you dont quite like who you are. But let me tell you that what you think is uncalled for, because im positive you are a beautiful person. and that just because you are shy doesnt mean that no one cares. its just... sometimes people dont know how to talk to people. They are afraid to make the first move. Dont let that fact of human nature make you think that people hate you.

I really suggest talking to someone about this, maybe a school counselor or your parents. Let them know how you feel, and then figure out some options, because you DONT have to feel like this forever.

you can heal and i believe in you

i really hoped this helped...

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Just rise above this
Kill them with your kindness
Ignorance is blindness
They're the ones that stand to lose

'Cause they don't even know you
All they see is SCARS
They don't see the ANGEL
Living in your heart
   
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