best friend lost.. sad

[br0diculous]

me and this girl became bestfriends and were inseparable for around a year and everything was great, but then in July she found out she was moving to a different state and it was kind of weird for a while but then we were good again, but then like 2 weeks before she was supposed to move in October things started getting weird and we fought a lot, but then we made up the days before she left. then after she moved she was acting different and was becoming close with another girl back here who was also my friend, so over a little while we got to the point that we werent even talking anymore then when i tried to talk to her about it we got in a fight and now we arent friends anymore.

its been months but i cannot move on for anything, and i have felt depressed and very sad.
about 2 weeks ago i tried to make up with her and she blew me off and was rude
but i dont know how to make myself move on..

[John Osborne]

To make yourself move on you must embrace the change rather than fear it.

Look at this as a new oppurtunity to make some new friends. When one door closes another door opens. Also if you need me for anything feel free to pm me.

[Leah-Marie]

Just remember that sometimes people drift apart. I'm sure she still cares about you quite deeply, and she didn't mean to hurt you. When people are afraid to lose a person, they frequently lash out at them. It's fear, and they want to try to cut their losses.
It's easiest if you stay away from her, don't try to be a part of her life unless you know she'll stick around. For a while it'll be hard, but I promise that it does get easier. The pain doesn't go away, but it becomes easier to accept and it kind of numbs. New people will walk into your life and you will be okay.
Just remember that.