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Do I tell her? - January 19th 2012, 09:02 PM

Well, I'm a cutter. I told my counselor that at the end of November. We've been working everything out and everything. In December I gave her my suicide note. Obviously, she told my parents, and got me other help. I was planning on using my dads gun. Now, he has it locked up. Recently, I came up with a new plan. One no one would figure out until the very last few minutes of my life. Before I do it, do I tell her what she means to me and that none of it is her fault. That she has done more than enough to help me, but I have just been over the edge for too long. Or do I do it, and tell her all that in a note. What do you guys think?

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Re: Do I tell her? - January 19th 2012, 09:09 PM

I truthfully think there is no means for suicide, i know your going through a lot of pain lately but that is no reason for suicide. You PM me at any time or send me an Email at pennypreimesberger@gmail.com but please don't do it.
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Re: Do I tell her? - January 20th 2012, 02:39 AM

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Well, I'm a cutter. I told my counselor that at the end of November. We've been working everything out and everything. In December I gave her my suicide note. Obviously, she told my parents, and got me other help. I was planning on using my dads gun. Now, he has it locked up. Recently, I came up with a new plan. One no one would figure out until the very last few minutes of my life. Before I do it, do I tell her what she means to me and that none of it is her fault. That she has done more than enough to help me, but I have just been over the edge for too long. Or do I do it, and tell her all that in a note. What do you guys think?
I am really sorry that you are feeling so bad right now. But I do have to be honest and tell you that I felt bad and got pissed that you are asking people here to help you figure out the "right way" to tell somebody that you've given up, etc. In my opinion there is no right way, because this is not the right thing. I can only hope that your questions mean that you see some reason, even if it's not to hurt this person who has tried to help you, to keep trying and not give up.


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