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giving up - January 23rd 2012, 06:56 AM

im giving up...
i cant do this anymore

im done...i am sooooo done....

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Re: giving up - January 23rd 2012, 07:53 AM

Please don't do it. There are people out there who would care if you were gone. Maybe its not your family or friends or whatever but i would care. It would affect me to see a good person take their life. Message me, tell me what's wrong I promise I will talk it out with you ♥
   
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Re: giving up - January 23rd 2012, 12:12 PM

Hi there.

I'm really sorry that you're feeling so low right now that you're thinking about killing yourself. I don't know what's going on and it is really hard for us to help you if you don't explain to us how you're feeling and what is making you feel this way. We're here to help you the best we can and we don't want to be alone, even more so you don't have to be alone. People can help you through this but they can only do so if they know what is going on for you. You have to take responsibility and let them in so they can help you in a way which you will benefit from. I know talking to people can be hard but if it might be the only way for you to feel better and get out of this then so be it. We're here for you if you want to talk to us. Life does get better, it can get better and it will get better for you. You just need to hang on in there and work with people and fight through this. You can do this.

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Re: giving up - January 23rd 2012, 09:48 PM

DREW, YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU...RIGHT? YOU CAN DO THIS...I KNOW YOU CAN. YOU HAVE ME DON'T YOU? AND I'M NOT GOING ANYWHERE.

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Re: giving up - January 23rd 2012, 11:36 PM

Drew,
Please don't give up. I know you can keep going. Life always gets better.<3
Im here if you need to talk.
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Re: giving up - January 27th 2012, 04:56 AM

i dont care what happens to me
i deserve this
if it came down to making a choice
i would kill myself right now...

i dont feel that i deserve to be alive
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Re: giving up - January 27th 2012, 05:36 AM

You DON'T deserve this and you DO deserve to be a live. You matter Drew, whether you think so or not. We are each put on this world for a reason. We aren't supposed to know that reason but until we fufill that reason, we stay. None of us on this site have fufilled our reasons. Please DON'T kill yourself. There are people that love you that would be deviated and scarred for life. They won't recover from it, nobody can if something of that nature happens. Don't put them through that kind of hell. Don't put yourself through that kind of hell. You CAN get better if you let yourself. But you have to want it. I know you don't fully want to kill yourself. You wouldn't have posted. Some of you STILL wants help and believes you can get help. If it didn't, you would not have posted. Let yourself get better Drew. Its the only way.


   
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Re: giving up - January 27th 2012, 05:09 PM

Hi Drew,

Please don't give up. Whatever is going on right now, know that it is not permanent. Everything comes to an end, the good, the bad, no matter what it is. I promise everything is going to be okay. Can you talk to us and tell us a little bit about what is going on?
If you need someone to talk to, you can feel free to PM me anytime.
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Re: giving up - January 29th 2012, 04:37 AM

i really feel like i deserve this
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Re: giving up - January 29th 2012, 05:39 AM

If you feel like you deserve this Drew, you gotta tell someone. ANYONE that can get you some help, you need to tell them.


   
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Re: giving up - January 29th 2012, 06:31 AM

I know you don't know me, but please dont give up <3 We all care about you so much. Stay strong <3
   
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Re: giving up - January 31st 2012, 04:39 AM

if i told someone(espeically my family),...they would be horrified...

no one in my family knows that i self injure
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Re: giving up - January 31st 2012, 05:07 AM

Hi there. I know this has been going on for a long time for you now and i'm really sorry that you're feeling the way you are. You definately don't deserve it. I think you're at the point where you need to starv doing something about the way you're feeling. Change what you're doing because clearly what you are doing just isn't working or making things any better for you. People can help you but they can't do that unless they know that you need help and what is going on for you right now. Maybe it's time for you to take control of the situation and reach out for help, whether that's talking to friends, family, a teacher, a school/college nurse/councelor, or even a doctor. But you're going to have to be honest to them in order for them to be able to help you in a way which you will benefit from. At the end of the day as hard as it can be you're in control of your actions. I can suggest ideas to you but you're the one who has to take the advice we all give you here and put it into action. The person who can help you the most is yourself. I think that deep down you want help and that this may actually be you crying for help. I know it's hard for you but things can and will get better for you. Keep fighting. You can do this. Jessie.


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Re: giving up - January 31st 2012, 08:17 PM

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Re: giving up - February 3rd 2012, 04:37 AM

Drew, I know its hard. But telling someone in your family would be best. Sure they might be terrified, but you would be safe. You can do this. Keep going! <3





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