Triggering: How do I even handle this

Kira-Kira · **How do I even handle this -** February 8th 2012, 05:24 AM

This week so far is just going so bad. One I lost two friends to suicide one being a part of TH another my friend Nicole who pushed me when I needed it. Second one of my friends is feeling suicidal and I don't know how to help her. Three my other friend lost her dad today in a car crash. Me I'm about to have a mental break down I just can't take it I'm so stressed and I feel depressed and suicidal and my anti depressants dose was lowered so that's not helping I turned to SH and I know it's not the answer but I can't take it why can they give up and not me I want to be in heaven with my beat friend Miwa, my friend Lauren, Peter, Nicole and my family I have lost I have lost numerous friends to suicide why do they get to give up I just want to give up to.

minniemouseprincess · **Re: How do I even handle this -** February 8th 2012, 06:39 AM

I'm SO, SO sorry hun=( But here's the thing, You HAVE been through some awful stuff. You must miss all your friends terribly. And I know if I lost my best friend, i'd want to die and prob try to die too. But the thing is, you have to live. You have to. You have to live for her. She wouldn't want you to take the same path she did. If she could take it back, I bet she would have. She's always gonna love you and she's always gonna be with you. She never left in that way. And that goes for all your friends. But please stay for them, they would want this. They'd want you to live a long and happy life. Think of how you feel now and how awful it would be for your family and other friends to feel the same if you were gone. Thats miserable stuff and thats a feeling nobody would wish on anyone. I'm not gonna say you will ever heal from this or that it will get easier because it won't. That hurt will remain forever because it does for anyone who loses people so close to them. But you won't feel the exact same way you do RIGHT now forever. That part yes, in some ways will get better. It just really doesn't feel like it right now. I think you should be getting therapy since you suffered so many loses recently and one loss of a single friend is horribly traumatic. I would ether go to the school counceler or tell mom and dad that you need to be seeing someone for a while. Oh! And about your friend who is feeling suicidal, speaking from experience, go to the school counceler imediantly and tell him/her. Its VERY important that you do this because obviously her life is on the line. You could be saving her life. Please don't forget this okay? Tell the counceler ASAP. Thats the only way you can help her right now besides just being there for her. You can talk to me whenever you'd like.

Kira-Kira · **Re: How do I even handle this -** February 8th 2012, 06:49 AM

Thanks Hun <3

minniemouseprincess · **Re: How do I even handle this -** February 9th 2012, 01:00 AM

sure=) You are welcome to message me anytime you'd like=)

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Kira-Kira Offline you dont know my story Senior TeenHelper ******* Name: coral Age: 17 Gender: Female Location: torrance,california Posts: 919 Join Date: August 31st 2010	Re: How do I even handle this - February 8th 2012, 06:49 AM Thanks Hun <3 dont give up just hold me now Miwa my best firend may you rest in peace I will stay here for you and you will never leave my heart because I loved you I wish you are here but now you are a concrete angel in heaven where you are loved yes I will miss you but I know your by my side every single day holding my hand

minniemouseprincess Offline Member Senior TeenHelper ******* Name: Julia Age: 18 Gender: Female Location: Disney World=) Posts: 912 Join Date: December 17th 2010	Re: How do I even handle this - February 9th 2012, 01:00 AM sure=) You are welcome to message me anytime you'd like=)

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