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abreacti0n February 9th 2012 02:11 PM

Giving up.
I've fucked up pretty much everything in my life.

And now I really think it's time for me to end it all, I just can't take it anymore. :'(

xxprincessxx February 9th 2012 02:50 PM

Re: Giving up.
I know this is cliche but it's very true none the less "suicide is a permenant solution to a temporary problem." I know life is tough right now and there might not seem like any other options, but trust me there are and if you keep holding on and keep fighting life does get better!

Are there certain situations that are making you feel like life isn't worth it and that you can't go on? I know it might feel like you've messed everything up but I'm sure that's not the case, you're still alive and that gives you a chance to fix those things that you feel like you have messed up and/or let go of it and keep moving forward.

Have you talked to somebody about the way you are feeling! Talking through your problems is really key...I know how to tough it can be to open up but trust me letting it out there and getting help is so worth it, you don't have to suffer like this; things can get better! I suggest talking to a therapist about your feelings or another adult like a school counselor, teacher or your parents. They want to help you, you just have to ask for it!!

Please keep fighting and hang in there! If you ever want to talk feel free to PM me! I'm always here. (:

minniemouseprincess February 10th 2012 02:17 AM

Re: Giving up.
Sammie's right. Suicide solves nothing and makes nothing better. It makes things worse actually. You may not feel the effects of it afterwards but your family and friends do. And thats a kind of pain nobody should have to face. The loss would be a terrible one and one that they would never be able to forget or get past. People never forget when loved ones die. My friend lost her best friend not too long ago to illness and she still grieves for him everyday. I've seen her totally fall apart on his anniversary. And he died from illness...from suicide, I bet she'd be doing worse. Its hard regardless but you know. And you know what else? Not only do your family and friends really need you, what if there's someone else (maybe thats not even in your life yet) that will need you in the future? What if you were meant to save somebody else from suicide someday? What happens when you arent there? Death effects more than one life. Please, don't end yours. If you need help, get some. Tell someone how you are feeling, anyone that can help. That pretty much means any adult. You haven't fucked your life up babe, there's always time for your life to change. And I can bet you by the time your my age, it won't be the same it is now.

Lumos. February 10th 2012 05:41 PM

Re: Giving up.
Maria, I agree with Sammie and Julia. Listen to what they say. You can get through this, it just takes work. And i know this doesnt mean much right now but, life does get better. :hug: Have you thought about talking to someone and getting professional help?
You can do this. Everything will get better. Just hang in there. Im here if you ever need, you can PM me. <3

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