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Unhappy How am i supposed to get help when no ones willing to help? - February 12th 2012, 11:40 PM

I basically yelled at my grandparents for my mom not doing anything. My mom never took me to a doctor about my depression even though i asked her repeatedly. My grandparents havent done anything either. I've told the people who are supposed to take care of me that there is something seriously wrong with me and yet they still do nothing. How am i supposed to get help if no one is willing to help me get it?
Ive had more and more suicide attempts and my cutting is getting worse and worse.
At school no one even notices that anything is even wrong. Beauty of long sleeves i guess. I feel like if i dont go see someone about all of this soon im go to blow my lid.
   
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Re: How am i supposed to get help when no ones willing to help? - February 12th 2012, 11:53 PM

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Im very sorry no one has taken you to a doctor or someone. Thats really good that you want help. Do you think you could go to a school counselor, or a counselling center alone? They could get ahold of your parents, and then you could get help. I want to say 1 thing, even if it doesnt seem like it now but life does get better. If you ever need to talk PM me. <3 Hope this helped.





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Re: How am i supposed to get help when no ones willing to help? - February 13th 2012, 12:16 AM

Hi there. I'm really sorry that things aren't very good for you right now. I'm also sorry that you tried to reach out to people and it feels like they haven't really listened or tried to help you. I can understand that this must be upsetting and frustrating for you. I suggest that you try getting help yourself. I know that night be hard because it's always nice too have the support me your family but just because they aren't helping you doesn't mean that help isn't out there. You can always try talking to your school nurse or councelor or even try talking to your doctor. I know that night be scary but these people care about you and they're there to help people like yourself. We're here to support you as much as we can to. You're not alone in this. Hang in there. Jessie.


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Re: How am i supposed to get help when no ones willing to help? - February 13th 2012, 02:12 AM

Hey,

It seems like you've told both your grandparents and your mother that you need help and they aren't getting it for. (Please correct me if I'm wrong on that.) If that's the case, you can go back to your school counselor and let them know that your legal guardians are refusing you the help that you really need to get and the counselor should have a back up plan, in order for you to get help! At least that's how it is where I'm from!


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Re: How am i supposed to get help when no ones willing to help? - February 13th 2012, 02:26 AM

thanks for the advice
   
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Re: How am i supposed to get help when no ones willing to help? - February 13th 2012, 04:05 AM

You didn't use the hotline numbers I gave you?


   
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Re: How am i supposed to get help when no ones willing to help? - February 13th 2012, 12:08 PM

I couldnt build up the courage to call
   
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Re: How am i supposed to get help when no ones willing to help? - February 14th 2012, 01:41 AM

You need to try hun. Right now from what you said, there is no other way for you to get help.


   
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Re: How am i supposed to get help when no ones willing to help? - February 14th 2012, 02:05 AM

I wrote a note that i plan on giving to my school counselor.
   
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