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Tired. - March 6th 2012, 02:38 AM

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I'm just...so tired and done.

I'm trying to be godly, and act like a christian and all. because i am a christian. im trying to set a good exampl;e for my family and mostly my little 'sister'. im trying to be good and all this..garbage...and i'm jjust so tired. i just want to stop trying and die. Jodie'd be better off without me here at this point, I am a terrible influence and i am hurting her more than helping her. I feel like the worse person ever for being like this, but I can't help it- I am terrible. I just want ti die. then it would all be better- the world would be a better place.


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Re: Tired. - March 6th 2012, 01:58 PM

Marla, what makes you think that you are a bad person and aren't being there for her. I know well enough that you do a LOT for Jodie, and I think deep down she really loves you.


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Re: Tired. - March 7th 2012, 12:47 AM

jodie says it, and i think it constantly. i cant be a person that is good. i cant be who im supposed to and being me isnt good enough fro anyone


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Re: Tired. - March 9th 2012, 02:21 AM

I can't do this stuff right now. Im sorry.


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Re: Tired. - March 16th 2012, 01:30 PM

 Have you heard of a wedding ring style called tension set wedding rings? This style is very different from traditional wedding rings; it has a stylish, modern appearance. There are many advantages to getting a tension set ring, but there are some disadvantages as well.

This style of wedding rings is not as widely spread as tradition channel set rings. But they are becoming more popular in recent years because of their elegant beauty. The reason they are called tension set is because the stone is hold in place by tension. In tension set engagement rings and wedding rings a stone is set in an opening in the ring itself and held by tension of the open ends of the ring. This style gives your stone a better exposure.

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Another disadvantage is not really any concern to you; it is a problem for jewelers themselves. While the stone can't come loose accidentally, it is easy to remove if a person deliberately holds the ring open. So many not so honest people remove the diamond, and then come back to a jeweler complaining that the gem is lost. But as we already mentioned this is not your problem as a customer.

Tension set wedding rings are for people who want something different. Surprisingly, considering the cost of diamond and the material, they are not much more expensive than traditional rings. So if you want a unique, stylish ring that shows your gem in all its glory, go for a tension set ring.
   
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Re: Tired. - March 16th 2012, 03:29 PM

I'm sorry that you are feeling this way but trust me she wouldn't be better off without you and neither would anybody else! Suicide is a permenant solution to what is a temporary problem. I know it doesn't feel temporary right now but life will get better.

God obviously doesn't want you to kill yourself, He created you with a purpose and a reason for living, don't throw that away. Maybe try talking to Him and praising Him, go to church, talk with somebody, do something you enjoy, and try to keep your mind off of this.

If you feel like you are an immediate danger to yourself please tell an adult, call a hotline, go to your local hospital or call your local emergency number!

It will get better! If you ever want somebody to talk too, please feel free to send me a PM!


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