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.... - March 15th 2012, 04:37 PM

I found out on Monday that a school friend of mine hung herself she was such a nice girl at school we didn't hang out much but we were great friends when we saw each other but after school ended I moved away so hardly see any of my school friends and since I found out about her death I'm stressing about it I wish I talked to her before it happened and she would still be here now I feel suicidal and hate feeling like this I can't hold the tears back also I can't get down for her funeral which I feel bad about




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Re: .... - March 15th 2012, 05:15 PM

Hi Jodie, I'm very sorry for what happened...

What you're feeling right now is normal in a situation like this. It is normal to feel guity and wonder "what if I had told her this or that? What if I had been there when I could.." Or feeling u could have done something to help her and prevent her from going away...

But the truth is that it has happened, whatever the reasons she probably had a good one, and no matter what u did or said, it was her decission after all. It's been her call and all u can do is grieving and then accepting it and then overcoming it and remember her as the friend she was...

Again, i'm sorry, and please, do not make the same mistake she did... There is always an alternative, okay?
   
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Re: .... - March 21st 2012, 03:00 AM

Sometimes I think suicides are just sad guardians of what it means to be a part of life. Could life really be the same without them? Its completely our choice, everyone thinks about it, its just that some more than others. Its doing the impossible, putting mother nature to the test and forcing her to answer, the question of what will happen if I am gone.... unfortunately, you dont know the answer in the end, and no one can say if its better or worse. Personally, there is no heaven and hell. There cant be a devil with how evil people are these days, therefore there cant be a god. The good die young, and one day the evil will inherit the earth. You must have a certain respect for those who journey beyond what we have never done. Shes in no more pain now. Any other negative affects will always be remembered, but only temporary pains. Like a splinter in your mind, you will always wonder why, but in the end, you KNOW its numb...
   
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