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Unhappy Really wants to give up.... - August 26th 2012, 03:17 AM

Things are getting very hard to handle.

I want to cut myself or over dose on medication. I think that it's the best option for me.

Everyone would be happy if I was gone.

I am not important enough to be here anymore.

Talking out these feelings with someone might help a little.

I can give everyone what they want, me gone.

These feelings seem like they are getting worse.

I feel very lonely and depressed and isolated that I think hurting myself is the only thing I can do.

It think that it will take all the pain away.


Reasons why I want to cut and self harm:

* No one cares about me.

* Won't have to feel the pain anymore.

* I can be happy.

* It's the easy way out of difficult situations.

* It's a way to cope with strong feelings*

* It relieves my stress.

* I don't like myself.

* Distracts me from overwhelming emotions or difficult life circumstances.

* To have control

* I would be better off if I wasn't here.*

* It's a way to express anger.

* To feel something other than emptiness, even if what I feel is pain.

* To punish myself because I feel inadequate or worthless.


Advantages of ending my life:*

* Won't have to deal with pain anymore.*

* No one would have to care anymore.

* *Everyone would be happy when I am gone.

* No one can hurt me anymore.*

* Won't have to feel so lonely or isolated anymore.*

* People won't have to listen to me anymore.

* I won't have to live in pain anymore.

* I won't have to feel scared anymore.*


I have had many past experiences. When I was young my parents always used to hit me. Usually if one of my siblings did something they would blame it on me and then they would hit me. This really hurt me deeply because I thought that my parents hated me and that they wish they never had me and that they only had my siblings. I had bruises and a black eye from them. They still hit me now to. I obviously did something for them to do this to me. This is still happening now and it's very scary.


I was also bullied everyday at school by these group of girls. They would call me ugly, fat, a loser, stupid, a loner and they always said that I had no friends and that no one would ever be my friend. Then one day when I went to school these girls became physically violent. They would push me into walls and they would hit me and kick me. I ended up with lots of bruises and getting a black eye. This has happened so long. I felt that I was worthless and that no one wanted me here so I thought that I would cut myself. This hurt me really deeply.This is still happening now.

I have attempted to cut myself. I couldn't handle any of this anymore. I couldn't handle my parents abusing me and these girls bullying me so I thought that I should give up on life and cut myself.

Everything is all my fault.


“Words can break someone into a million pieces, but they can also put them back together. I hope you use yours for good, because the only words you'll regret more than the ones left unsaid are the ones you use to intentionally hurt someone.”
― Taylor Swift
   
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Re: Really wants to give up.... - August 26th 2012, 04:54 AM

Never give up on life.How can things get better if you do?You need to fight through.
Tell someone,like a teacher or conseller,they can help make these things stop.You just need to take that first step.You should never give up.Ever.


Believe the tunnel can end, believe your body can mend.
Yea I know you could make it through cause I believe in you.
---"GO";Boys like Girls.
   
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Re: Really wants to give up.... - August 26th 2012, 05:27 AM

PEOPLE DO CARE ABOUT YOU!!! i care about you. please do not end your life. its not worth it.

you have to tell someone what your parents are doing and what these girls are doing to you. try telling a school counseller?

im sorry babe. im not really good at giving advice. but i promise the bad stuff ends eventually.

you can send me a private message or something if you need to talk. im here for you.


Without you there is no me.

RIP Ammie, Nan, Uncle Trev.

Lucas my little sprout <3
   
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Re: Really wants to give up.... - August 26th 2012, 07:50 AM

Hun ik how u feel trust me u should see my arms but I've got it bad I'm addicted to it plz don't turn out like me lean on me ok ill hold ur hand through it I promise
   
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