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Anyone out there? - March 12th 2014, 05:01 PM

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Anyone feel like cutting til they bleed out? Anyone hate themselves so much they don't care if they die right now?anyone so done with themselves and everyone around them? Anybody who can talk some sense into me? Anyone who will just talk to me that'd be great.
   
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Re: Anyone out there? - March 12th 2014, 05:17 PM

Hey there, I just want to say that I think it’s really brave of you to feel able to post right now. It sounds as though you’re feeling really desperate and so it’s really important that you don’t try and keep your feelings inside and to yourself.

You say ‘if anyone’s done with themselves’, but I don’t think you’re quite done just yet. You’ve posted because you need help. That’s something to hold onto. You’re not giving up, you’re giving yourself that chance.

Has something happened today to make you feel this way? If you want to talk, I’m here. You can PM me as well if you’d rather but don’t keep this to yourself. If you don’t feel able to talk to me, or anyone else, how about writing your feelings down, just getting them out into the open might not change things right away but it can help to make things clearer in your head and give yourself some of the space you need to think about how you can make things better for yourself.
   
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Re: Anyone out there? - March 12th 2014, 05:24 PM

Hey,
You're definitely not the only one who's felt that way.

I'm sorry you're having a hard time right now. But you CAN get through it. You won't be this miserable forever, even if it seems like you will. You are an amazing person, and you don't deserve to feel this way. You probably don't believe that, but it's true. Remember that it is possible to get better, no matter how hopeless it seems right now.

Maybe you wouldn't care if you died right now, but tons of other people would. Even if you think no one cares, someone does. I care and I don't even know you. Your parents care, though you might think they don't. Your friends care, though you might think you don't have any. But plenty of people would care if you died.

Have you tried looking at the self harm alternatives thread? This can be really helpful. Try going on a run, or calling a friend. Just something you enjoy doing. At least it will take your mind off things. Does anyone know that you're having some trouble right now? Definitely consider telling your parents, or anyone you trust who can help. This might seem like a terrible option, but it WILL help, probably much more than you think it will.

You can message me if you need help or want to talk. Stay strong, we're all here for you


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Re: Anyone out there? - March 12th 2014, 08:16 PM

Hey there,
First of all let me say I am really sorry that you are feeling this way. But your definitely not the only one that has felt this way. I have felt this way many of times before. But know it does go away and things do get better. I think even though you feel this way you don't really mean it or else you wouldn't have posted on here. You said you need someone to talk to well I'm going to send you a PM.


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Re: Anyone out there? - March 14th 2014, 03:44 AM

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Anyone feel like cutting til they bleed out? Anyone hate themselves so much they don't care if they die right now?anyone so done with themselves and everyone around them? Anybody who can talk some sense into me? Anyone who will just talk to me that'd be great.
Hey, you're for sure not the only who has felt this way before because I for one feel the same way sometimes feel like that.
As you said that you feel done, I don't exactly believe that's true because this thread is showing that you still have something to hold on to, something to keep fighting for. You posted this because you want help, and you are strong enough to beat this. Someone always cares about you, I care and I for one wouldn't want you giving up just yet.
If you ever want to talk, feel free to send me a pm
   
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Re: Anyone out there? - March 14th 2014, 03:11 PM

I am so sorry you are feeling this way, I have felt this way many a time and I know how you are feeling. If you need to talk PM me, my inbix is always open to people who need help.
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