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Just being honest. - March 13th 2014, 07:24 PM

I feel like everything I say on here is stupid and irrelevant. I feel like I do everything for the wrong reasons. I feel like..I'm just a bad person in general. I know most of you guys may feel most of what I say is indeed stupid and irrelevant. To all of you who self harm I do know what that's like. I know what it's like to feel depressed. I know what it's like to want to die. What it's like to feel unwanted,guilty,and scared. I try to be the best person I can be. I try not to judge people. I try to be friends with and love everyone. I try to make goals for myself to not smoke and not cut and to try to be the strong person I know I can be. But it gets to a point where you gotta let go and stop trying. I know I'm not helping anybody on here at all. And I'm truely sorry.from now on it's all about all of you--seriously anybody message me or post stuff and I'll help you no matter who you are or what your problems are. I'm here for anyone.
   
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Re: Just being honest. - March 14th 2014, 01:17 AM

I don't think what you are feeling is stupid or irrelevant. If it is something you are feeling and something that is going on in your life, it is NOT stupid, and you deserve all of the support and help you can get.

It's okay if you aren't helping anyone. Remember that it's ALWAYS okay to focus on you, and if you need the help, please don't hesitate to get it!

It is great that you do want to help though! I bet you'll be great at it, either by posting around the site or messaging people.


   
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Re: Just being honest. - March 14th 2014, 01:24 AM

Hey there,

You shouldn't ever feel like your feelings or thoughts are irrelevant or stupid. The fact is that you are feeling those things or thinking those things and that makes them very important. I think that it is a good thing that you are reaching out to people on this site. It is so much better to reach out to people then to keep all your feelings locked up inside of you. I know sometimes it can be hard to reach out and sometimes reaching out can make you feel badly but please keep on reaching out because in the long run it could prove to be really beneficial.

If you ever want to talk please feel free to message me.


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Re: Just being honest. - March 14th 2014, 02:39 AM

hey there,
To get it out of the way.. Nothing you say here is stupid! You have every right to post what you want (to some extent ) by posting.. You aren't helping just yourself.. You help others who probably do have the same question as you do, but to scared to post or something also you should focus on getting yourself better if you don't and just help others and not focus on yourself getting better it won't work out. I'm NOT saying don't help others. Just have time to focus on your recovery because you are just as important to them

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