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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help.

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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - April 22nd 2018, 07:14 PM

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Yesterday I volunteered at the health department instead and today I scrolled through Tumblr.


Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
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Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - April 24th 2018, 09:14 PM

Today I read my textbook and did the dishes.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - April 28th 2018, 11:46 PM

Wrote some stuff
Prepped a bit
I have read a bit and will continue reading
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - April 29th 2018, 05:47 AM

I ranted to a certain someone and also reminded myself I have to wear light colors soon at an event.


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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - April 29th 2018, 07:53 PM

I was able to talk about random things with my boyfriend.
Going to make a pizza which I have been wanting to try for a while.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - April 30th 2018, 12:24 AM

Petting my cat.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - April 30th 2018, 04:49 AM

Today I drew and painted my nails.


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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 2nd 2018, 02:32 AM

Listening to music
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 4th 2018, 06:24 PM

Hanging out with my partner.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 9th 2018, 06:55 PM

I watched Hulu and talked to someone to distract myself until I fell asleep.


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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 9th 2018, 08:21 PM

I've just been kind of relaxing and reading a lot since my semester is over (until the summer one starts!) I've been watching TV and I want to distract myself with movies too.


If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 9th 2018, 09:14 PM

I am watching TV and I read a bit earlier. I am thinking of writing something later as well.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 9th 2018, 10:10 PM

Putting all my energy into doing well on finals.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 10th 2018, 12:48 AM

Sitting with my boyfriend. We are also going to watch TV a bit later.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 11th 2018, 01:30 PM

I think I am going to go back to sleep for an hour or two.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 12th 2018, 08:01 PM

I read and listened to music
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 13th 2018, 04:10 PM

I read and later I am going to go do something in order to get out of the house.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 16th 2018, 07:30 PM

Getting ready for the meeting and talking to my boyfriend about things that are making me anxious.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 18th 2018, 05:47 PM

Staying safe because I have a movie I want to see later tonight. If I harm myself I'll be unlikely to see the movie.

Also thinking about my job and the fact that I need to be healthy to maintain it.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 18th 2018, 10:34 PM

Tbh I just gave all my blades to my friend and he flushed them down the toilet for me. Don't know what I'd do without you, Cameron.

I don't have a way to calm myself down or anything. Ranting on paper on occasion. But not much else.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 20th 2018, 11:43 PM

Watching a livestream and trying to knock a couple of small things off my to-do list.


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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 21st 2018, 02:39 AM

I got out of the house; went to book club and went shopping. It helped to distract myself in that manner.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 21st 2018, 05:47 PM

I read until I couldn't and then I took a shower.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 24th 2018, 07:22 AM

I watched some TV.


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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 26th 2018, 02:16 PM

I made myself breakfast, have been utilizing TH and I read a bit. I think I am probably going to go ahead and read a bit more to try and meet my goal of getting this book finished by tomorrow.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 26th 2018, 09:01 PM

Talking to friends on social media.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 28th 2018, 10:34 AM

Reminding myself that I have a lot of good things coming up and I can't sabotage it!
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 28th 2018, 09:13 PM

Hanging out with my partner and her son.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 29th 2018, 08:28 PM

Talking to my boyfriend about the anxiety I've been having.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 30th 2018, 01:27 AM

Drinking tea with my partner.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - May 30th 2018, 03:23 PM

I took a shower and after I comb my hair I am going to try and read a bit
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - June 3rd 2018, 10:55 AM

Doing stuff on teenhelp and then I might try and go back to sleep or read a bit.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - June 5th 2018, 11:44 AM

I'm either going to go back to sleep or go read a chapter of my book
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - June 5th 2018, 07:04 PM

Working and preparing for lunch. It helps I'm out of the house
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - June 6th 2018, 07:07 PM

Distracting with work and looking forward to the weekend.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - June 7th 2018, 07:48 AM

One of the most effective ways to avoid such thoughts is to work out. Yes. Working out is the answer for all the negativity that you may experience.

Channelize all that energy and negativity towards exercising and cardio. It gives you immense power at the gym. Once you see the results, you'll feel so much positive and realize that those negative thoughts and self harming was not worth the person you've become.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - June 7th 2018, 11:10 AM

Trying not to overthink or let the nightmare I had freak me out too much.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - June 10th 2018, 11:23 AM

Contemplating readimg but might try and go back to bed.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - June 11th 2018, 01:14 PM

Reminding myself I have work
Getting dressed for work
Reminding myself that self harm has to wait a while because of work.

(not a perfect solution but it's helping)
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - June 16th 2018, 12:45 PM

Trying not to let the nightmare get to me.

Trying to decide on the book I want to start.
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