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Exclamation Please help - October 17th 2017, 12:32 AM

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I started cutting three days ago after my mom called me trash and a slut...her words, they made me feel like I shouldn't even be alive. The insults have been getting more worse for the past three years, and I don't know any other way to soothe my mental pain. The pain, it's intense and I can't find anything else that could make me feel better....I have no one to talk to, and the people at my school are the worse.. Please, if anyone is listening, how do I stop this pain?
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Re: Please help - October 17th 2017, 01:52 AM

Please don't consider ending it all or cutting I do that and it only helps for awhile but the pain will keep coming back I know this may be triggering but I use this site it is called fatal to the flesh.com try it out it might help
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Re: Please help - October 17th 2017, 12:40 PM

I am sorry to hear that your mom called you those things and has called you a lot during the past few years. You are not a slut, and you’re not a piece of trash either. You are an amazing person and nothing your mom says can ever take that away from you.

You said you can’t talk to anyone at school and that is understandable. Is your dad in the picture? Do you think you could tell him about what is going on if you can? If not, you could also look into calling a hotline so you can talk to someone. Consider keeping a journal or a blog so you can talk about your feelings.

Are you interested in any clubs or extra curricular activities? If you are, looking into them may be a good idea. Spending time out of the house and away from your mom can be a good way for you to keep safe and possibly develop friendships with people.

It may also help to create a safe place, whether it is a physical or mental one. If you choose your room, for example, you could decorate it with positivity and make it a safe place to calmly reflect on things. You could also choose a favorite place if you can go there, or you can visit it in your mind when things get overwhelming.

You asked if there is a way to stop the pain and the answer is kind of unclear, but it is hard to recover and begin to heal when you’re around the person who has treated you this way. You can definitely make progress with the way things are now, but you might make the best progress after you are no longer being mistreated.

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Re: Please help - October 17th 2017, 01:45 PM

Hello and welcome to teenhelp, we are so glad that you have joined and said what is going on with you. Great job.

I am really sorry that you are having a hard time with this right now being hurt and I am also sorry that you're mom called you that and said that to you. No matter what we do as teenagers and children, parents should never say anything like that to them no matter what. Hugs to you.

Up above talks about safe place and I really like that because you can create a place for you to be safe for you and make you feel that way so when you're mom saying things to you and you feel that everything is going wrong, you can go to this place and it can help you be okay no matter what.

Also when you're mom's like this can you get out of the house and go to a friends house or go for a walk and put some music on. You can also put on a funny TV show or movie to help pick you up to help you be ok. You can also try writing down you're feelings in the journal or on paper and getting everything out, all of the anger and sadness and anything else you are feeling to help you as well. I wish you the best and you are always welcome to post whenever you need to.
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