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So close to snapping. - July 27th 2009, 10:19 PM

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I'm so close to breaking right now, and doing alot more than I usually do and if I do i don't trust myself - I'll probably do it to deep, I can't control this urge and I don't really want to ignore it although I'm trying my best not too.
Me and my girlfriend just broke up, we were together for fourteen months..
I still love her, It doesn't feel like I'll stop. It was for personal reasons, no one cheated, it just wasnt working anymore.
She was my best friend too, now it feels like I have nothing no one although we're still friends but it hurts so much..

Okay, I'll admit..I'm feeling pretty suicdial right now..
I don't which thread it should have gone it but I guess it was this one, i can't think straight.
I want to go to sleep and never wake up.


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Re: So close to snapping. - July 28th 2009, 12:27 AM

Hey Jess I'm sorry you are feeling so upset. The begginning of a break up is always the worst. Just think though it can only get better from here! Maybe instead of just ignoring the urge to cut do something to get it off your mind. Take a walk or check the alternatives sticky for other thinks to try. Sooner or later the urge to cut will be gone! Just hang in there. Even if your girlfriend isn't extremely close with you anymore there are lots of other people here for you such as famiy and other friends! We are here for you so pm me if you need anything! Good luck and you can pull through!


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Re: So close to snapping. - July 28th 2009, 02:00 AM

Try punching a pillow or ripping up pieces of paper to relieve your frustration. Im sorry things did not work out no every thing is easy but there is always a reason for everything even if you dont see it right away and some things you will never no the exact reason. I wish you all the luck.
   
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Re: So close to snapping. - July 28th 2009, 02:04 AM

The thing is we're still friends but we were talking earlier and she was thinking about giving it another shot after a few weeks apart, and for some reason as much as I love her part of me doesn't want to get back with her because she hurt me so bad? Is that normal? I just feel angry and upset, i cant talk to anyone and I just want to take it out on myself.
Although so far I haven't..and I'll keep trying not too


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Re: So close to snapping. - July 28th 2009, 02:25 AM

Hey Jess,
You okay?
How ya feeling?

Hurting yourself won't solve anything.
I have learned that myself.
if anything, it only makes you more annoyed at yourself.
I've hurt myself for over 2 years and i think i know how your feeling.

talk to me, Im here for you =]


Life is too short to be anything other than happy all the time ..

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Re: So close to snapping. - July 28th 2009, 06:15 PM

That is completely normal to still be upset with her. I understand you have been deeply hurt so you don't feel like going back to her. Try talking it over with her about how you are feeling and why you are so upset. I'm sure sure be able to help. Good luck!


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