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Exclamation .....O shit... - September 18th 2009, 11:58 PM

So my friend knows i havent been acting right lately..shes been txting me asking me whats wrong..shit she is more perceptive then i give her credit for..she just asked me if ive been hurting myself..she got it right...crap i didnt want her to know..darn it darn it im freaking out..i dont know what to do know..help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Re: .....O shit... - September 19th 2009, 12:46 AM

Hey Lili, I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Are you sure that it wouldnt help your friendship if you let her know what was going on? If you tell her, it could bring you guys alot closer. And if you don't, she's already suspicious so it's probably safer to tell her at your own pace instead of having her find out when you're not ready. I know that your friend probably has your best interests in mind with her questioning. Can you lie to her? At one point it may get hard to hide your SH.

Just be honest...you dont have to tell her everything at once. You can just tell her, "I'll tell you about it later." Don't let her rush you. But I think you should eventually come clean. It feels really good for your soul...not sure if you've ever had a feeling like that...but to get something off your chest like that, it really helps.
   
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Re: .....O shit... - September 19th 2009, 12:52 AM

You shouldnt be worried. You have a great friend that notices something not right about you and she wants to help. Tell her the truth trust me it will get so much weight off your shoulder. Good Luck!
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Re: .....O shit... - September 19th 2009, 02:12 AM

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Hey Lili, I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Are you sure that it wouldnt help your friendship if you let her know what was going on? If you tell her, it could bring you guys alot closer. And if you don't, she's already suspicious so it's probably safer to tell her at your own pace instead of having her find out when you're not ready. I know that your friend probably has your best interests in mind with her questioning. Can you lie to her? At one point it may get hard to hide your SH.

Just be honest...you dont have to tell her everything at once. You can just tell her, "I'll tell you about it later." Don't let her rush you. But I think you should eventually come clean. It feels really good for your soul...not sure if you've ever had a feeling like that...but to get something off your chest like that, it really helps.
I dont think i can lie to her..im horrible at lieing its just no ones ever asked me about this before and the way she was hounding me i freaked nd told her im not admitting to anything.i just, im scared of people finding out..


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Re: .....O shit... - September 19th 2009, 02:13 AM

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You shouldnt be worried. You have a great friend that notices something not right about you and she wants to help. Tell her the truth trust me it will get so much weight off your shoulder. Good Luck!
Il try my best thanks


Some say the world will end in fire,
Some say in ice.
From what I've tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To say that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice.
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Purge free since March 8th 2013
   
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Re: .....O shit... - September 19th 2009, 02:21 AM

Hi Lili,

When my friend first found out that I was hurting myself, I was so upset, and scared. I honestly thought that she was going to tell my parents. She didn't though, she got me help. I forever thank her for that.

Friends can be so understanding about things like that. You should really talk to her, and let her know why you do it. She might be scared and confused.

With your friend knowing, she may be able to help you in the future. Thats what friends do

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