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Unhappy How does he do this to me!? - September 24th 2009, 05:58 AM

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I was just checking out dating sites for the hell of it when I came across my ex's...

He was the first guy I've ever loved, every talked about kids with, ever talked about marriage, ever lived with, and ever felt beautiful around.

And he broke my heart 4-5 months ago for another girl closer to him.

And anyways, I saw a profile of his, that he's recently been active and it just...hurt, a lot.

So I cut =[[[[[
   
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Re: How does he do this to me!? - September 24th 2009, 12:56 PM

Hey Mystery,

I can understand how hard it must have been to have seen your ex on this site and although it's been a little while since he hurt you it's still raw and it still hurts, loads of people find this.
Think about things like this, he hurt you emotionally you shouldn't physically hurt because of him, that is only making him win.

Please don't harm yourself over a guy, it's really not worth it and I'm guilty of doing it myself but honestly it's not worth it. I'm sure om time to come he will regret doing what he did to you but by then you would have moved on and found someone else or just be completely over him.
I'm here if you ever need to talk, Paige x
   
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Re: How does he do this to me!? - September 24th 2009, 02:29 PM

Hey,

I can understand that it would probably bring up lots of horrible memories of him. Honestly though you are a lovely person and if he doesn't see that then he is missing out. You are better off with him and I know it is so hard to move on. But anyway he has already hurt you enough and you definitely don't deserve to be hurt a second time by yourself. You deserve loads better than that. Always here for you.

Stay strong.
   
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Re: How does he do this to me!? - September 24th 2009, 06:32 PM

I know a guy sin't worth it and really I'm letting him win.

But blah. It just hurts so much and I don't know how to deal with it..
   
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