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Smile nervous and excited - October 8th 2009, 04:54 AM

i told my bf that i was cutting and he's been really supportive. he's been great. he's talked me into asking my dad tomorrow if he would call and make me an appointment with a therapist at a place that he knows is good. i'm nervous, and a little anxious, but i'm a little excited to. i think this is gonna be a good thing.
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Re: nervous and excited - October 8th 2009, 05:04 AM

You'll be great, nakushita-san. Your dad will be supportive. I'll be supportive. I am supportive. We'll get through this, together.
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Re: nervous and excited - October 8th 2009, 04:53 PM

I think you did so well to tell your boyfriend about your self harm. That is a huge step! It is only natural to be nervous about seeing someone but remember they are only there to help you. I hope you manage to speak to your dad and that it all goes well
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Re: nervous and excited - October 8th 2009, 05:48 PM

That's great that your bf and father are being supportive! And that you're getting help (: Big props to you! It's okay to be nervous but, you'll be just fine! (:

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Re: nervous and excited - October 9th 2009, 02:05 AM

Wow, I am so glad you told your boyfriend. I know it must have been hard but now that you have his support it must be a relief. I know having support from my friends and family was really helpful.

I think talking to your dad would be a great idea and I am sure he will be understanding, supportive and want to get you counseling.

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Re: nervous and excited - October 9th 2009, 02:08 AM

Honestly, thats the hardest part.
Feel proud.
Be proud of yourself.

Things will get better and you are lucky to have the support.
Dont be too nervous.
Be happy.
Things will turn up from here.

Congrats and good luck.
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Re: nervous and excited - October 9th 2009, 02:10 AM


And you should be so proud of yourself!!!! Keep us updated on your recovery!


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