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yet again. - January 28th 2009, 06:02 PM

ive done it again.
i became the person i swoe id never become.

cut up my wrist and arm.
watched the blood fall.

im not proud
and the mental health lady said to me today.
that i enjoy being depressed and having this lifestyle and doing this to myself.
great.

i honestly dont.
shes someone else who doesnt understand.



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Re: yet again. - January 29th 2009, 03:09 PM

Hun, I know it's hard but you have to keep trying. It's just a slip up. I know it's hard when you're hoping people will understand and they turn out to know #### all. Even my mental health nurse said that I liked being sad.. so I was thinking "who the #### do you think you are?!" Haha, put a smile on my face. Please don't give up though, hun. *HUGS*


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Re: yet again. - January 29th 2009, 05:01 PM

haha. i want to give up.
i want to self harm again.
i am so down right now.
argh.


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Re: yet again. - January 31st 2009, 05:04 PM

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haha. i want to give up.
i want to self harm again.
i am so down right now.
argh.
Aww, please don't hun. You're doing really well. Find something else to do instead.. like listen to music, go for a walk, watch TV anything as long as it doesn't hurt you. I know it's hard not to give in to the urge, but you'll regret it if you do. If you're feeling that down right now, talk to someone. I know you said you're mental health nurse doesn't understand, but GET HER to understand. Tell her exactly what's on your mind, if you're confused and don't really know why you're down, then find out. It took me A LONG TIME to find out why I felt the way I do and still am finding out. I'm finding new reasons all the time why I act/feel the way I do. If you really can't talk to your mental health nurse then call a hotline, if you live in the UK like me then you can call childline (it's completly FREE even from mobiles and it won't show up on any bills). They also won't tell anyone anything you tell them. Please keep going and don't give in, you can do it! Take care.


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Re: yet again. - January 31st 2009, 05:22 PM

just because you gave in last time doesnt mean you will do this time. try to think of all the reasons why you dont need to be hurt. or write them down if you have to - i did the same earlier (write down reasons) and i feel better now bwcause of it.
you dont need to be hurt. You deserve so much better. Is there anyone you can talk to about how your feeling now? if not then talk to us. were here to support all we can.
your future isnt set in stone. you can change who you are if you hate who you are now- but im sure really youre an amazing person.
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Re: yet again. - January 31st 2009, 05:32 PM

Stopping self harm is not an easy thing to do. I think that most of us in this forum completely understand that. But it is worth it, just stay strong. Keep reviewing our Alternatives Thread for ideas you can do when you have an urge. And don't forget we are all here for ok.




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Re: yet again. - February 2nd 2009, 02:55 AM


now ive resorted to burning myself with my lighter.
as well as trying to find everything i can, to hurt myself.
I feel so down, so sh**
I mean the south of england is covered everywhere with snow.
So all schools are closed, and there are no buses.
I should be happy. But instead i'm here alone stuck in a village with no where to go
Its like i am at the rockest of rock bottom if that makes sense.
I never can seem to cut deep enough... or i'm just running outta blood
Im surprised.... i have blood left.


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Re: yet again. - February 2nd 2009, 03:39 AM

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ive done it again.
and the mental health lady said to me today.
that i enjoy being depressed and having this lifestyle and doing this to myself.
great.

i honestly dont.
shes someone else who doesnt understand.


I've had someone say that to me before. I thought it was ridiculous. I know how hard it is and how painful it can be.
Try some alternatives, you can get through this.

Just letting you know that there are people that care.
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Re: yet again. - February 2nd 2009, 03:51 PM

Oh I feel your frustration about not being able to enjoy the snow. Its just no fun when there is nobody to have fun with.

You've got to stop self harming


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