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July 13th 2013, 01:06 PM
Today will be 11 weeks and 2 days
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July 13th 2013, 07:12 PM
five months.
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July 13th 2013, 10:49 PM
1. 1 day, some amount of hours 
2. a few hours.
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July 13th 2013, 11:42 PM
Forgot to update asdfghjkl three days now. Hang in there everyone!
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July 13th 2013, 11:58 PM
Two weeks. Wow.
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July 14th 2013, 12:59 AM
5 days.
Stay strong everyone! <3
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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July 14th 2013, 03:55 PM
I've been a month and a well sh free with only one relapse! Doing good so far
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July 14th 2013, 07:48 PM
2 months and 8 days. Stay strong everybody!
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"Everybody is always tugging at you. They'd all like a sort of chunck out of you. I don't think they realize it, but it's like 'grrr do this, grr do that...' But you do want to stay intact and on two feet."
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"I was never used to being happy, so that wasn't something I took for granted. You see, I was brought up differently from the average American child because the average American child is brought up expecting to be happy."
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July 14th 2013, 11:02 PM
I don't even remember.... But i'm pretty sure it's over 25 days Woohoo!
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July 15th 2013, 05:35 AM
4 months and 1 week
Some say the world will end in fire,
Some say in ice.
From what I've tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To say that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice. Cut free since March 6th 2013 Purge free since March 8th 2013
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July 15th 2013, 06:16 AM
42 days.
6 weeks, 0 days.
1 months, 1 week, 5 days.
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July 15th 2013, 06:42 AM
6 days. Stay strong everyone! I know you can do this.
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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July 15th 2013, 10:16 AM
After a month and 2 days I cut  been 2 days.
Will fix thingee after not grounded. And lapto back. New carpet so everything boxed.
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July 15th 2013, 11:01 PM
^Stay strong.
I believe it's now 23 days for me.
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July 15th 2013, 11:16 PM
Five days.
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July 16th 2013, 12:09 AM
1 day. /.\ trying to overcome this battle.
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July 16th 2013, 01:08 AM
1 year, 4 months, 1 week and 2 days?? It's getting hard to count.
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July 16th 2013, 03:22 AM
About 15 minutes. 2 months and 9 days down the drain. Why Ellie, why?
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Just a few of my favorite Marilyn Monroe quotes 
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"Everybody is always tugging at you. They'd all like a sort of chunck out of you. I don't think they realize it, but it's like 'grrr do this, grr do that...' But you do want to stay intact and on two feet."
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"I was never used to being happy, so that wasn't something I took for granted. You see, I was brought up differently from the average American child because the average American child is brought up expecting to be happy."
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July 16th 2013, 03:58 AM
One week. 
Ally and also Ellie you can do this! Stay strong. <3
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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July 16th 2013, 06:33 AM
2 hours. Feel completely stupid >.>

When I'm sad I think, "I got a jar of dirt, I got a jar of dirt!"
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July 16th 2013, 08:06 AM
43 days.
6 weeks, 1 days.
1 months, 1 week, 6 days.
You guys can do this <3 even if you slip up sometimes, you can get back up and go much further. Stay strong
formerly snowstorm, GoneBeyondRepair, and Breathless in Love Repose en Paix, Grandad/mom H., Sito, Nay, Mary, Aunt S., Peter, Katie, Lexi, Mrs. Radoye, Mandii, Trevor, Megan, Uncle T., Erika, Aunt R., Braxton, Connie, Adam, Grandpa, Buttons, Aunt Barb, Pi, Grandma ♥ The world will bleed its bloody tale. People will throw their stones. But the one thing you must always remember is: You no longer walk alone. -Blake Bliss
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July 16th 2013, 09:19 PM
24, if I'm not mistaken. 
Holy crap, I'll be at a month soon.
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July 16th 2013, 11:08 PM
Four days?
The sun is always gonna rise up
You need to get up, gotta keep your head up
Look at the people all around you
The way you feel is something everybody goes through
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July 16th 2013, 11:30 PM
Eighty-three days.
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July 16th 2013, 11:55 PM
Two weeks, 3 days. Efhaghj.
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July 17th 2013, 12:00 AM
6 years now. I did it once and promised myself I would never do it again so mine might not even really count. Although I may research it later when I get my Masters because it's scary how addictive it is even just once and it really was hard work the first three years not doing it a second time. God Bless guys!
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July 17th 2013, 05:18 AM
50 days! This feels like a big landmark.
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July 17th 2013, 07:41 AM
44 days.
6 weeks, 2 days.
1 months, 2 weeks, 0 days.
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July 17th 2013, 08:46 PM
Five daaays.
This week has been surprisingly better.
The sun is always gonna rise up
You need to get up, gotta keep your head up
Look at the people all around you
The way you feel is something everybody goes through
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July 17th 2013, 08:51 PM
Two weeks, 4 days.
My goal is to make it to Sunday, the 21st, so that'll be 22 days.
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July 17th 2013, 08:55 PM
I'm free for 1 month, 3 weeks and 4 days I think?
Well done everyone, keep fighting and stay strong
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July 17th 2013, 10:55 PM
Day 25, veinticinco. :P
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July 18th 2013, 04:18 PM
10 days.
Or 1 week 3 days.
i might be able to make it through this.
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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July 18th 2013, 07:45 PM
5 days.....
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July 18th 2013, 07:51 PM
Good job, Cathy! You can do this <3 Keep going! 
2 weeks, 5 days.
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July 18th 2013, 08:16 PM
45 days.
6 weeks, 3 days.
1 months, 2 weeks, 1 days.
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July 19th 2013, 12:18 AM
Six days. You all can do this!
The sun is always gonna rise up
You need to get up, gotta keep your head up
Look at the people all around you
The way you feel is something everybody goes through
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July 19th 2013, 01:55 AM
Thirty-five days
I really am unsure how I'm doing this...
"i don't care your intentions. I just want you to know my self-hatred never took me where I wanted to go. At the end of the day...I can pick at the pain but I can't cut it away."
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July 19th 2013, 08:36 PM
2 weeks, 6 days. 2 more days, I can do this, I can do this
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July 19th 2013, 10:18 PM
This is day 54!
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