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January 11th 2026, 12:48 PM
One year and 104 days.
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January 12th 2026, 08:45 AM
8 days clean, yay!
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January 12th 2026, 08:03 PM
Zero again.
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January 12th 2026, 08:11 PM
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Zero again.
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January 12th 2026, 08:11 PM
One year and 105 days.
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January 19th 2026, 06:58 AM
15 days, yay!
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January 19th 2026, 06:04 PM
One week today. Struggling at times so I hope I make it past today.
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January 21st 2026, 12:30 AM
Outwardly: nine years and three months.
Inwardly: zero days.
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January 21st 2026, 08:50 PM
17 days clean
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January 25th 2026, 09:34 PM
4 days clean...
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January 30th 2026, 07:37 PM
We are back to zero.
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January 31st 2026, 02:24 PM
Does that mean you wanted to hurt herself Face??
Im so sorry buddy.....
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February 13th 2026, 07:54 PM
Zero ......
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February 21st 2026, 10:46 AM
25 days clean.
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February 28th 2026, 02:07 PM
32 days clean!!
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February 28th 2026, 06:58 PM
Thirteen days.
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Re: Self harm free! -
February 28th 2026, 07:27 PM
Gosh, nine years and four months I think? Which is fucking impressive.
But literally, maybe only minutes.
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March 7th 2026, 08:15 AM
2 days selfharm free.. 
“I am beginning to measure myself in strength, not pounds. Sometimes in smiles.”
― Laurie Halse Anderson, Wintergirls
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March 8th 2026, 07:06 PM
Three weeks.
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March 8th 2026, 07:58 PM
An hour  but I’m fighting
“I am beginning to measure myself in strength, not pounds. Sometimes in smiles.”
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March 15th 2026, 11:57 PM
One month and one day.
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March 16th 2026, 05:08 AM
God for you Dez 
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March 17th 2026, 08:05 PM
only a few hours from being 50 days clean but i really want to start over again...
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March 18th 2026, 08:46 AM
i didn't relapse last night. 50 whole days!
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March 25th 2026, 09:26 PM
57 days clean of self-harm.
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March 25th 2026, 11:22 PM
One month and eleven days.
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April 5th 2026, 08:19 AM
68 days clean of self harm despite many times I wanted to relapse.
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April 5th 2026, 05:09 PM
1 month 18 days but I am struggling.
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April 9th 2026, 07:03 PM
from 71 days back to 0 again...
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April 10th 2026, 08:25 AM
Im sorry your not happy
I am not either...
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April 16th 2026, 09:08 PM
2 months and 1 day. Let's see how long it lasts.
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April 17th 2026, 01:55 PM
I didnt realise you werent happy also Dez,Im sorry buddy........
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May 16th 2026, 12:45 PM
5 days and 14 hours. I finally started using the I Am Sober app to track my progress.
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Re: Self harm free! -
May 16th 2026, 05:29 PM
3 months and 1 day.
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June 7th 2026, 02:21 AM
3 months and 19 days, but I'm struggling a little.
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June 7th 2026, 05:45 AM
I hear ya buddy,with how fucked up the world is now its hard not to struggle!!
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Re: Self harm free! -
June 20th 2026, 05:48 PM
Two days. .
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Re: Self harm free! -
July 21st 2026, 03:38 PM
5 months and 6 days but aaaa.
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Re: Self harm free! -
August 2nd 2026, 04:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Face Up.
5 months and 6 days but aaaa.
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You GOT this!!
3 days which feels like a huge achievement considering how difficult it’s been.
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August 2nd 2026, 06:30 PM
Im so sorry everyone..
Its really hard to be happy now..
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