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Re: Self harm free! - June 20th 2009, 11:43 PM

2 day thats the first time in 4 years ive gone a whole day im proud of yself woop woop !!!
   
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Re: Self harm free! - June 20th 2009, 11:54 PM

an hour almost. =\


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Re: Self harm free! - June 21st 2009, 03:09 AM

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2 day thats the first time in 4 years ive gone a whole day im proud of yself woop woop !!!

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Re: Self harm free! - June 21st 2009, 03:36 AM

one month and nine days [:


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Re: Self harm free! - June 21st 2009, 03:49 AM

not long aday maybe


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Re: Self harm free! - June 21st 2009, 03:49 AM

2 and about a half years, still keeping urges under control.


"How can you get a goose out of a bottle?"
Imagine that a baby gosling was placed inside one of those big glass bottles with a little opening that you see model ships in, and raised inside, until it is fully grown and can no longer fit out through the neck of the bottle. How can you get the goose out of the bottle? Without hurting/killing the goose.

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Re: Self harm free! - June 21st 2009, 05:11 AM

four weeks, four days (or one month, 1 day, depending on how you're phrasing that)


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Re: Self harm free! - June 23rd 2009, 11:28 AM

3 weeks. Nearly a month.. ish



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Re: Self harm free! - June 24th 2009, 04:10 AM

42 days. (:


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Re: Self harm free! - June 24th 2009, 07:45 PM

13 days free and counting!


   
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Re: Self harm free! - June 24th 2009, 07:51 PM

At least 2 and a half months!! I don't know exactly could be 3 months
   
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Re: Self harm free! - June 24th 2009, 08:35 PM

at least a week


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Re: Self harm free! - June 25th 2009, 12:08 AM

3 days....


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Re: Self harm free! - June 25th 2009, 01:57 AM

Five weeks and hopefully soon-to-be-one day


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Re: Self harm free! - June 25th 2009, 02:49 AM

It has been 11 days



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Re: Self harm free! - June 25th 2009, 04:04 PM

44 days


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Re: Self harm free! - June 25th 2009, 04:11 PM

2 weeks. =]


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Re: Self harm free! - June 26th 2009, 05:22 AM

2 days..it was 2 weeks, but i broke down. im trying to stop for good



I want to fly away like a little girl again.
I want to believe in the things i once did.
Ride on the swings,
let the breeze fly through my hair.
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Re: Self harm free! - June 26th 2009, 05:28 AM

Somewhere around 4 to 5 weeks.



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Re: Self harm free! - June 26th 2009, 11:37 AM

One month in 4 days.
   
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Re: Self harm free! - June 27th 2009, 10:33 AM

one week and one day.

I don't count on purpose just know thursday was a week and it is saturday...soooo


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Don't buy the lies, disguisesandhoops they make you jump through
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So there could never be amore beautiful you
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Everyday
is so wonderful
And suddenly it's hard to breathe
Now and then I get insecure
From all the pain, I feel so ashamed

I am beautiful no matter what they say
Words can't bring me down
I am beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can't bring me down, oh no
So don't you bring me down today

To all your friends you're delirious
So consumed in all your doom
Tryin' hard to fill the emptiness, the piece is gone
Left the puzzle undone, ain't that the way it is?

'Cause you are beautiful no matter what they say
Words can't bring you down, oh no
You are beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can't bring you down, oh no
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Re: Self harm free! - June 27th 2009, 02:17 PM

about a year then i got sad and did last time was maybe 3 weeks
   
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Re: Self harm free! - June 27th 2009, 02:34 PM

1 year, 27 days.


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Re: Self harm free! - June 27th 2009, 10:33 PM

Eight days, but only because I couldn't get to my blades.


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Re: Self harm free! - June 28th 2009, 02:14 AM

4 months and 2 weeks.
   
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Re: Self harm free! - June 28th 2009, 05:28 AM

It will be a year in December! I am so proud of myself but i still want to do it
   
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Re: Self harm free! - June 28th 2009, 05:37 AM

47 days (:


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Re: Self harm free! - June 28th 2009, 07:57 PM

about 15 mins, lol :/


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Re: Self harm free! - June 28th 2009, 08:05 PM

five weeks, five days

And hopefully getting help, too!

Oi...


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Re: Self harm free! - June 28th 2009, 08:07 PM

A month odd.


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Re: Self harm free! - June 28th 2009, 08:30 PM

aww! good job everyone, keep it up. every minute counts. =)

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Re: Self harm free! - June 29th 2009, 10:15 AM

2 Days
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Re: Self harm free! - July 1st 2009, 04:24 AM

2 Days

I am planning on stopping for good...even though it's REALLY hard.........
   
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Re: Self harm free! - July 1st 2009, 04:26 AM

In about thirty-five minutes, six weeks.

Wow. I don't think I ever planned on getting this far...

Anyway, going for seven weeks

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I am planning on stopping for good...even though it's REALLY hard.........
Hey, 2 days is good! And you should be really proud of yourself, planning to stop for good. You can do it!


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Re: Self harm free! - July 1st 2009, 04:30 AM

50 days (:


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Re: Self harm free! - July 1st 2009, 06:51 PM

Three days.


She whispered to her own reflection "I will be strong."

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Re: Self harm free! - July 1st 2009, 07:32 PM

Just under a month.


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Re: Self harm free! - July 2nd 2009, 05:39 AM

Six weeks, one day.

Almost didn't make it today, though. Ick. Oh well. Here's to hopefully keeping going...


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Re: Self harm free! - July 2nd 2009, 05:38 PM

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Almost didn't make it today, though. Ick. Oh well. Here's to hopefully keeping going...
Well done for getting through the day!


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