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May 5th 2013, 01:37 AM
Not sure how but somewhere around a month and a half.
"i don't care your intentions. I just want you to know my self-hatred never took me where I wanted to go. At the end of the day...I can pick at the pain but I can't cut it away."
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May 5th 2013, 03:23 AM
Two weeks and six days. Tomorrow will be three weeks, but I don't think I'll make it to three weeks, but I'll try to make it to three weeks.
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May 5th 2013, 03:52 AM
Awww Sam... You did amazing, sweetie. I'm so proud of you! You can do it again too. 
54 days.
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May 5th 2013, 04:08 AM
1 week and 4 days. Better than I thought
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May 5th 2013, 04:15 AM
27 days.
I'm sorry to hear about that, Sam.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
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May 5th 2013, 12:31 PM
3 months 
There is no beauty without some strangeness.
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May 5th 2013, 05:19 PM
thank you Cassie and Christabel
about.. 26ish hours I think.
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May 5th 2013, 08:20 PM
3 weeks.
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May 5th 2013, 10:28 PM
Around two days?
’Happiness can be found in the darkest of times, if only one remembers to turn on the light.’
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May 5th 2013, 10:44 PM
Today was six weeks! 
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May 5th 2013, 11:51 PM
Seventeen days now. Wow.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
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May 6th 2013, 12:26 AM
If I make it through tonight, then a week and five days
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May 6th 2013, 01:07 AM
55 days.
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May 6th 2013, 03:33 PM
Four weeks, or one month. 
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
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May 6th 2013, 08:11 PM
Two days, I screwed up Saturday. Whatever, starting over.
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May 7th 2013, 07:30 AM
56 Days.
Sarah, you can do it!
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May 7th 2013, 07:07 PM
1 month, and one day
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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May 7th 2013, 07:38 PM
20 hours and 3 minutes  
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May 7th 2013, 08:55 PM
you guys can do this <3
um, i think its threeish days. Ive been on the edge since i messed up saturday, but i somehow have managed. dont know how long itll last though.
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May 7th 2013, 11:34 PM
Zero. Oh well.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
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May 8th 2013, 11:12 PM
Almost 2 years! (:
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May 8th 2013, 11:52 PM
uhm 12 hours
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May 9th 2013, 12:10 AM
Fifteen days.
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May 9th 2013, 12:21 AM
12 weeks, i do believeee
Great works are performed not by strength, but by perseverance.
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May 9th 2013, 12:53 AM
Dez, Susan, Sam, keep fighting.
58 days.
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May 9th 2013, 01:09 AM
One month and two days.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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May 9th 2013, 01:20 AM
A few hours. I screwed up. Even though today's been great. I don't really understand.
"You'll have to decide for yourself. Walk on your own. Move forward. You've got a strong pair of legs, Rose. You should get up and use them."
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May 9th 2013, 02:07 PM
26 hours
but having urges
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May 9th 2013, 07:44 PM
I've been self harm free for about a year and it feels amazing. I don't get urges, I don't even think about it. I just want you all to know that recovery is possible and to stay strong things get better <3
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May 9th 2013, 08:02 PM
32 hours......I think.
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May 9th 2013, 08:16 PM
One month and three days.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
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May 9th 2013, 08:30 PM
uh, 5 days, I think. or is it six?
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May 9th 2013, 08:51 PM
1 year, 5 weeks, 1 day.
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May 9th 2013, 10:32 PM
34.5 hours....this is going too slow :|
and that's not to say I'm not doing the other kind of SH so I'm not actually free. I shouldn't even be posting here 
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May 9th 2013, 11:36 PM
Today is 2 weeks and 2 days
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May 9th 2013, 11:46 PM
59 days.
Stay strong, Susan. <3
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May 9th 2013, 11:53 PM
1 week, 4 days.
11 days.
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May 10th 2013, 01:24 AM
1 week! go me!
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May 10th 2013, 01:54 AM
less than an hour
I don't know I keep relapsing.
The other kind is every other minute....so I'm not even posting that one.
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May 10th 2013, 04:21 PM
Two days SH free. It may not be considered a lot of progress, but nevertheless it's progress.
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