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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help.

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Re: Self harm free! - September 30th 2015, 01:45 AM

A month and three weeks!


   
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Re: Self harm free! - September 30th 2015, 04:11 AM

Eighteen weeks and five days.
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 1st 2015, 04:41 PM

Yesterday marked nine months!


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Re: Self harm free! - October 1st 2015, 05:38 PM

Fifty five days
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 1st 2015, 11:03 PM

nearly two days.


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Re: Self harm free! - October 2nd 2015, 03:05 AM

A month, three weeks, and two days.


   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 2nd 2015, 11:57 PM

About 2 years and 4 months. (Obviously some slip-ups in there, but, I've always gotten past them)
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Re: Self harm free! - October 4th 2015, 10:38 AM

28 days. Haven't had the urges since I last posted actually.
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 4th 2015, 03:47 PM

A month, three weeks, and five days.


   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 5th 2015, 11:10 AM

29 days
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 6th 2015, 11:13 AM

30 days!!! Ok wow. It's hard tonight for some reason. The urges came back today.
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 7th 2015, 04:54 AM

Two months today.


   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 8th 2015, 09:27 AM

32 days technically now.
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 8th 2015, 12:09 PM

Two months and two days.
Almost didn't make it to that last night.


   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 8th 2015, 03:06 PM

One and a half days.


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Re: Self harm free! - October 10th 2015, 08:09 AM

Twenty weeks and two days/four months, two weeks, six days.
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 10th 2015, 07:15 PM

nearly four days.


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Re: Self harm free! - October 10th 2015, 11:09 PM

35 freaking days!! I'm getting close to passing my most days clean mark. Oh my goodness!!
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 11th 2015, 12:33 AM

Two months and four days.


   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 11th 2015, 06:23 AM

Maybe a week?


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Re: Self harm free! - October 12th 2015, 01:47 AM

Two months and five days.


   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 12th 2015, 12:09 PM

36 days now!!
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 12th 2015, 11:24 PM

About four hours?


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Re: Self harm free! - October 13th 2015, 03:12 AM

2 Weeks tomorrow! So happy!
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 13th 2015, 09:35 AM

37 days!! It's so hard to maintain this though but I want to beat my record. I have like 9 days until I beat it.
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 13th 2015, 04:24 PM

Made it half a year! Tht's six month.
Never thought I would make it but simply looking at how far I've come helps fighting the urges.


It's ok to give in to an urge or make a mistake. You are only human and we all have our flaws. We all have our weak moments and we all make mistakes. Thats what makes us human.
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Re: Self harm free! - October 14th 2015, 11:53 AM

2 Weeks! I am happy I made it this far, now lets see if I can make it another week
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 14th 2015, 09:34 PM

Cutting-2 monthsish
Bitting-0 days
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Re: Self harm free! - October 15th 2015, 08:58 AM

21 weeks or 4 months, 3 weeks and 4 days.
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 15th 2015, 11:05 AM

39 days. Or 5 weeks and 4 days. I'm so close to beating my record. I am so close to cracking though. I will make it through.
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 15th 2015, 11:06 AM

A week till I beat my record!!
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 15th 2015, 05:58 PM

Three weeks.


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Re: Self harm free! - October 15th 2015, 07:54 PM

Eleven days, I think.


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Re: Self harm free! - October 15th 2015, 09:15 PM

Seventy days!!!!
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 16th 2015, 03:06 AM

15 days! Almost failed, but I didn't. I am going to reward myself with Ice cream .
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 16th 2015, 12:32 PM

Two months, a week, and three days.


   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 16th 2015, 01:26 PM

40 days officially!!
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 17th 2015, 12:02 PM

41 days from about 45 minutes ago.
   
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Re: Self harm free! - October 17th 2015, 08:41 PM

one year and six months

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Re: Self harm free! - October 18th 2015, 09:11 PM

Two months, a week, and five days.


   
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