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Messed up - February 13th 2009, 12:14 AM

I'm a total fuckup. I can't do this anymore. Five fucking weeks and I'm messing up.

Harder faster deeper. I don't care anymore.

I hate this place. I want to get sent away, soo bad. Do you think, if I take those pills, show my scares, they'll take me someplace?

I just want to get away.
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Re: Messed up - February 13th 2009, 12:34 AM

Hey Lilly,
Don't. It's not worth it. Everyone slips up once in a while, it's normal.
Get out of the house-take a walk, open a window, do something you enjoy. Distract yourself from this. Call a friend, talk to someone. You can get through this.
I hope this helped.

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Re: Messed up - February 13th 2009, 02:15 AM

Hey Lilly,

i know what your feeling, i've been there. You just gotta breathe, take lots of deep breaths. Get outta the house.. just do something you love, Think about the people you love and the ones who love you. You just gotta get it off your mind. Sometimes i'll write what im feeling on a piece of paper, then rip it into pieces or i'll shred it. It helps get it off my mind. Hope this helps.
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Re: Messed up - February 15th 2009, 12:24 PM

Firstly, you're not a fuck up sweetie,
and relapsing is a part of recovery, just a bump in the road, self harm is a bit part of all self harmers lives, its hard not to think about it, but you've gotta keep trying, one day, once you've kept trying you'll realise you don't need it anymore, although it may seem like a long time away, it will come.
And instead of taking those pills, why don't you open up, talk to a parent, a teacher, or your doctor, who would probably arrange councilling and suitable treatment for you?
Pm me if you need me
take care.


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