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valentines day - February 14th 2009, 10:34 PM

makes me want to cut a lot


   
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Re: valentines day - February 14th 2009, 10:40 PM

^ why? (not to sound rude at all in that one word)

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Re: valentines day - February 14th 2009, 10:44 PM

cuz i hate this day majorly im fine with every other hoilday but i hate this one.

All my friends are off with there boyfriends while I sit at home. Being pathetic and all.

I'd like to just carve love into my arm


   
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Re: valentines day - February 14th 2009, 10:47 PM

see.. people don't realize that valentines day isn't all about boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife, it's about love.. being with the people you love and the people who love you. I know what you mean to be sitting home alone... but jsut pop in a movie.. a scary movie or a romantic movie. something to get your mind off of it.

dance around, listen to music. make food. do something to have FUN!!!


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Re: valentines day - February 14th 2009, 10:48 PM

i hate it when you're the one without a boyfriend... i can't even pig out on chocolate ice cream and watch Moulin Rouge! with my best friend because she had to go to some winter conference thing and leave me behind. I even spent yesterday with her boyfriend... (and with his sister) but it was so weird... but so amazingly nice to be around other cutters...

i would love to carve that into my arm, too... as long as it stayed pretty when it scabbed up... i would love to carve into my arm period... but i don't really feel like having something else to hide.
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Re: valentines day - February 14th 2009, 10:50 PM

yea i get what you mean i can do it on my hip though


   
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Re: valentines day - February 14th 2009, 10:55 PM

i want to cut... but i know i shouldn't... i want to have rubber band wars with my friends... cuz that would hurt but it wouldn't be like SI, it would just be like falling at hurting yourself on accident...
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Re: valentines day - February 14th 2009, 11:05 PM

Hey,
Valentine's Day can be pretty depressing but like thisbkatie said it isn't about just romance it's also about love in general. So do something for yourself, family or friends. Get your mind off cutting! Dance, jump around, call up a friend, go outside, anything. If you talk about it it's just going to trigger you more.


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Re: valentines day - February 14th 2009, 11:44 PM

well i just carved love into my hip


   
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Re: valentines day - February 14th 2009, 11:47 PM

Do you want to talk?


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Re: valentines day - February 14th 2009, 11:54 PM

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well i just carved love into my hip

i'm sorry.
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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 01:04 AM

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idk it dosent really matter im never going to get over it just be cutting the rest of my life.


   
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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 01:05 AM

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idk it dosent really matter im never going to get over it just be cutting the rest of my life.

you don't have to cut the rest of your life.
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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 11:57 AM

so I tried to kill myself last night.

How awsome would it be for me to leave on valentines day.

But once again it didnt work. Im so sick of this!


   
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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 12:09 PM

hey, i just want to say im here... have you had medical attention if needed?
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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 12:29 PM

I'm not going to a doctor


   
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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 04:25 PM

maybe there's a reason why you can't kill yourself? maybe that's not how your supposed to die?? Ever think of that?? there's gotta be a reason why you can't kill yourself.

So why continue trying?? If you've tried before and you can't do it, why do you continue to try. it'll only make things worse.


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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 04:45 PM

I know Valentines Day can be crappy, believe me. I've spent every year except one alone and without anyone to spend it with so I know how you feel but as someone has said, Valentines Day is about love, not just being with your partner but being with people you love like your friends or your family so you don't have to be alone.

As for cutting, you don't have to do that. It may seem like the best solution to all your problems at the time but what are you left with? Pain and a horrible scab/scar that you have to hide from others so they don't ask questions when there are so many other things that you can do like checking out the alternatives thread or talking to someone about it. My PM box is always open if you ever want to talk <3 x
   
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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 06:49 PM

hey... i'm here to talk if you need me.

if you keep trying to end everything... you're just going to make everything worse. more guilt and shame is going to build up with every attempt that you make.

what is driving you towards cutting/suicide?
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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 10:30 PM

everythings driving me towards it

I wanna try again tonight. I can only fail so many times one of these times its gonna work.


   
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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 10:32 PM

Hey Kendi,
Please don't. We're here for you. Look at your signature. 'Rescue is possible'. It is. What is everything?


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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 10:35 PM

life just seems so pointless.

I cant be bothered to do anything except sit here.
I have so many things to do but I just sit here because I cant make myself do them.

I just want to sleep forever.


   
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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 10:40 PM

Do something to cheer you up and take your mind off this. Think of everything you'd miss if you left. You have your whole life in front of you. That's a reason to live. There are millions of reasons to live.


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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 10:41 PM

But I hate life. Im so much better off dead.


   
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Re: valentines day - February 15th 2009, 10:46 PM

No, you're not. It seems that way now but it's not true. What do you hate about it?


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Re: valentines day - February 16th 2009, 12:37 AM

everything. I hate waking up in the morning going to school coming home getting on the computer its this endless cycle of crap. I cant stand it.


   
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