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Can't be helped - December 26th 2010, 09:06 PM

No one can help me stop. Partially since no one I know besides Allie understands. Also I don't want anyone's help. I've learned multiple times that getting help always ends up as getting hurt. People suck. I'm not judging, I suck too. But nobody is really trustable. People who know don't treat me the same and I hate it. They ask things that are none of their damn buisiness and they act like I'm unstable when I'm fine. No getting help. Time to figure out other options


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Re: Can't be helped - December 26th 2010, 09:35 PM

"But nobody is really trustable" is the problem right there. People make mistakes, Blair. Some are much less trustworthy than others, but you need to make a leap of faith and trust at least one person. The good thing abuot this post, however, is that you said you cannot be helped. If you're thinking of somebody getting you to stop cutting as being helped, then you're in much better shape than you could be.
Talking to somebody who genuinely cares is a great way to stop cutting. I'd also stick around the forums, post when you get the urge, even if it's just a blog post so the we can talk to you and so you can vent. Try to help out other people - nothing increases self worth like helping others. Cutting yourself won't help you at all. If you don't like that people look at you differently and treat you like you're unstable, prove them wrong and put down the blade. It's also possible that they just want to help you, but either way, do this for them, for us, but mainly, do this for yourself.


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Re: Can't be helped - December 26th 2010, 09:56 PM

Sure people make mistakes, but I'm pretty certain all the shit (sorry for the language) people have done with my trust was on purpose. I am not planning on talking to someone who "cares" because people don't. They can't. My friends don't even know me. I was always so happy as far as they knew. Everyone thinks I'm sweet and happy and have an awsome life. I'm not about to correct them all. My 2 friends who know I cut just give me a ton of unwanted pity and ask a ton of unwanted questions. If I'm gonna quit I have to do it by myself.


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