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GRRRR - February 26th 2009, 08:52 PM

My sisters driving me mad
my mum and dad take her side like all the time so i get shouted at for nothing yet she threatening me and getting away with it
i need to cut im sctratching to try stop the urges but its not enough i need more i need the feeling i get from a cut but i know i shouldnt so im drinking to try and make it seem ok but i know deep down if i give in i'll regret it in the morning ...
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Re: GRRRR - February 26th 2009, 08:55 PM

Hey there *hugs* I know you're strong enough to get past this. I hate it when parents take one kid's side over the other (mine do it too sometimes, of course never in my favor), but you just need to remove yourself from the situation when that happens. If they are going to trigger you, you need to just try to get out of there and take some time to relax.

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Re: GRRRR - February 26th 2009, 09:06 PM

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Re: GRRRR - February 26th 2009, 09:57 PM

Hey darlin'

Its very difficult growing up when parents take sides. BUt that doesnt mean you have to self harm, I know you want to, but you shouldnt let others drive you to do it. Do you realy want to hurt yourself just because you got caught in a nasty situation?

I know that deep inside you can get through this & not cut & I know your strong enough to keep away from it.

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Re: GRRRR - February 27th 2009, 04:27 PM

Hey hunni. I know what its like to have a sister who never gets the blame for anything.. its annoying isnt it? But i spoke to my parents about it and they stopped accusing me in the wrong after that. You should try talking to them, maybe they dont even realise their doing it. Good for you for trying to not SH, its not east but drinking wont help, in fact it will probably make it a whole lot worse. So try to stay away from the booze. There is a great thread in the Self harm forum full of really helpful alternatives.. give them a try. What really helps me is holding onto a peice of ice untill it melts..or snapping a rubber band around your wrist.. there are loads more in the thread though.
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