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pig problem - January 19th 2011, 12:10 AM

Well where should I start. I did this stuff with a guy and this girl found out and I am not happy about it. I am mad at myself for what I did. I know I am not pregnant. I blame myself for it all. I am pretty upset. and I want to hurt myself over this even though I know its not worth it. thanks for listening to me.
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Re: pig problem - January 19th 2011, 03:41 AM

I know it feels real bad. I did the same thing back when I was really reliant on my cutting. Just hold on, stay with us and push through it It doesn't last for ever, I'm not saying it wont be a bumpy ride, but, simply put, we don't walk out of every situation unscathed. This isn't something that you want to get your self addicted to.


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Re: pig problem - January 19th 2011, 03:50 AM

Hey Kimberly,

This might not be the kind of thing you want to hear, but it's the honest truth, so please hear me out.

No matter how bad you feel right now about what happened, you will eventually feel better. Emotions pass with time. So no matter how much you feel you need to cut right now, it will pass with time as well.

You know how easy it is to procrastinate homework? Try doing the same thing with cutting. Whenever you feel like cutting, tell yourself you'll do it later, tomorrow... only here, keep going with it until you don't feel like cutting anymore.

Stay strong. You can get through this.


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Re: pig problem - January 19th 2011, 11:05 PM

thanks for your help. I didn't end up cutting YAY me.
   
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Re: pig problem - January 19th 2011, 11:06 PM

YAY YOU indeed! That's wonderful news. Congratulations!!


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Re: pig problem - January 19th 2011, 11:09 PM

High fives all round. Remember we'll still be here if you need a chat


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Re: pig problem - January 20th 2011, 12:10 AM

That's great to hear. PM me if you ever need anything.
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Re: pig problem - January 20th 2011, 12:19 AM

I'm really glad to hear that you didn't give in. Kudos to you for staying strong
   
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Re: pig problem - January 20th 2011, 01:09 AM

Thank you everyone. for your support. I really appreciate it. if u ever need anything i am here for u to
   
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Re: pig problem - January 21st 2011, 02:07 AM

Since this seems to have been resolved, I'm going to close this thread. PM me if you want it reopened.


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