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Unhappy ex making me want to cut? - February 13th 2011, 12:37 AM

so, i've been struggling with cutting lately. i broke up with my ex because i felt he was holding me back and i got tired of him, but i'm realizing that it might be because of him that i cut. because now whenever i talk to him i really really want to cut. i can't not talk to him tho, because even tho i broke up with him i still love him in a way. idk what to do. help?
   
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Re: ex making me want to cut? - February 13th 2011, 01:15 AM

Cutting because of another person is not worth it. You said you can't not talk to him, maybe try to talk to him less then. You should never cut because of someone else. You should never have to have someone make you feel that way. You don't deserve it.


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Re: ex making me want to cut? - February 13th 2011, 02:13 AM

thanks. i don't know why, but talking to him makes me really sad. i don't know what to do to get rid of all the pain i'm feeling.
   
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Re: ex making me want to cut? - February 13th 2011, 02:16 AM

If talking to him makes you sad and causes you pain then that's really unhealthy for you and the best thing would be to get some space from him right now.


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Re: ex making me want to cut? - February 13th 2011, 05:38 AM

cutting because of a guy is a horrible reason to cut if he makes you sad just quit talkin to him


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Re: ex making me want to cut? - February 13th 2011, 05:50 AM

I know what it's like to get the urge to self-harm because of something someone else did, but harming yourself because of another person is never worth it. You may be in love with this guy, and being disconnected from him is going to be hard but if it's making you feel like this then being around him is not healthy for you.


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