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Relapsed...almost 2 years gone - February 24th 2011, 02:34 AM

I have now thrown away almost two years of such hard work. Things have been heated up lately and just getting really bad. I have done so good at not letting it get to me. Until tonight. And not even thinking about it I did it on my arm. Along with all the snapping. So now I don't know what I'm gonna do about work on Friday and Saturday. Fuck my life. I am so sick of everything right now.

I have an appointment with a psychiatrist on Wednesday. Hopefully then I'll find out what's actually wrong with me and start getting help. And hopefully be told by a professional that I need to get out of the environment that's doing this to me. Meaning my house.

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Re: Relapsed...almost 2 years gone - February 24th 2011, 01:27 PM

Hey,
I am sorry things a rough for you at the moment, first of all well done for not cutting for so long, it is brilliant. Everyone slips up sometimes, don't be too hard on yourself, you have to look at what caused it and then learn from that; keep going and stay strong, you can do it.
That is great that you are seeing someone that can help you, good luck.
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Re: Relapsed...almost 2 years gone - February 24th 2011, 02:15 PM

It is perfectly normal to have urges and slip up at times, don't beat yourself up for it. You didn't waste those two years, you did really good. Now think to yourself. "Okay, I couldn't fight the urge but now it's over and it's time to get back on track." I hope everything goes well at your appointment, good luck!


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Re: Relapsed...almost 2 years gone - February 24th 2011, 08:57 PM

Thank you fo your kind words and support and encouragement. It means a lot to me. I was referred to crisis and assessment today by my counselor and was diagnosed with depression. Hopefully with the psychiatrist and a therapist I am on a road to recovery and being better.

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Re: Relapsed...almost 2 years gone - February 25th 2011, 02:35 PM

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Take care and as i said before if you ever want to talk feel free to PM me :-)
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Re: Relapsed...almost 2 years gone - February 25th 2011, 05:52 PM

We ALL relapse. Sometimes, someone, or something, pushes the right button, and sets us off.

What you need to understand is that it's an isolated event. You went two years without self-harm, so you KNOW you can do it again, and go for a longer period of time without self-harming.

It's good that you're talking about it!


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