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Exclamation "Everytime" - February 28th 2011, 02:45 AM

My friends really like Brittney Spears (her music) and so they make me watch the music videos with them. when they mentioned they wanted to watch the video to "Everytime" i was like, "okayy!!" because i listen to that song to distract myself from cutting...i belt out the lyrics and by the time ive sung it a couple times, i don't itch to slice my arms up anymore.
none of my friends know about my self harm, by the way
Anyways, we were watching it and theres this one part where brittney is trying to kill herself and she has these big slashes across her arms and blood leaking out...it was really triggering. i said "guys, can we please turn this off??" and they made fun of me saying "tori, its just fake blood!" it made me want to slash up my arms and to make sure i wouldn't lose it, i had to keep myself away from my friend's bathroom just so i wouldn't tempt myself with the razor...it sounds so messed up but now everytime i hear that song, its really triggering and it makes me wanna self harm and its getting popular at my school.....ugh i don't know what to do!!!



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Re: "Everytime" - February 28th 2011, 04:11 AM

that sucks and im really sorry!! if your friends are trustworthy enough and mature enough to her bout your SH than maybe you should tell them bc i am sure they would understand, sympathize, and stop with the song singing...also, if you really dont want them to know or if you would much prefer to handle it on your own than you could always bring an ipod with you to school and listen to it in the hallways to class or during lunch and if your friends bring up that song you could always blast a new song from your ipod to listen to...idk..just an idea...but if you think your friends can handle it and be there for you the way you want them to i would suggest telling them...pm me if you ever need to talk and keep me and TH posted so we know how it goes!
   
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Re: "Everytime" - February 28th 2011, 04:11 AM

p.s. props on trying to not cut!! thats hard and admirable!!
   
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