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I just want this to pass :/ - April 5th 2011, 09:13 PM

i dont know what to do. Ive been trying to stop self harming latley but its seems its the only thing i can think about. Its always in the back of my mind no matter what im doing or who im with. It seems like i can never be happy and i think this is Part of the problem. I just feel alone all the time. I have some friends and a boyfriend around me that know about my problems but they dont know the full extent to them. I wake up every morning and im just sad. I feel like this will never pass. I just want to be happy and not feel like i need to SH all the time to help make me even slightly a little happy. Ive been starting to drink again as well. I feel like i need something.. anything to distract me from the urges to SH and plus drinking helps me sometimes like to be happier or at least not worry ab things for a while. I dont feel like i can talk to my friends or boyfriend about how bad things have gotten. I dont want them to have to worry or be brought down because of me. I just dont think i can do this anymore. I dont know what to do.
   
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Re: I just want this to pass :/ - April 5th 2011, 10:24 PM

Stay strong, I know you have it in you(:
Have you talked to your parents about it? A counselor?
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Re: I just want this to pass :/ - April 7th 2011, 01:43 AM

Why not talk to a counselor? Or spend more time with your boyfriend or your friends so your not tempted. And please stop drinking when your 16 it is more likely that you will become an alcoholic later and I don't think you want that.or whenever you get the strongest of urges I know it's hard but call someone and see if you can hangout. Or look at the sticky of alternatives. Try and find out what works for you. Just avoid SHing and drinking please
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Re: I just want this to pass :/ - April 7th 2011, 02:16 AM

I agree. Drinking is just as bad as SH. They are both dangerous coping methods. I know its hard, trust me, I'm going through the same thing right now. What I've been trying to do is not dwell a lot on cutting, or if I think about it, I will read a book or try to talk to someone so they can distract me. It's all about finding that thing that will get you away long enough for the urge to disappear. And sweetie, if your friends and boyfriend really care they will WANT you to talk to them about everything. If it means that it will make you feel better and not be in any pain, they will jump at the chance to hear you. I encourage you to talk to them.



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Re: I just want this to pass :/ - April 7th 2011, 11:59 PM

i cant rly talk to my parents ab this. right now my mom and i and my stepdad dont have a good relationship. shes got me most of the time through our custudy agrement but most the time we cant go a day without fighting. she makes me feel like a screw up all the time and like nothings right in her eyes and i dont want to hurt my dad. as for talking to a counsoler i wouldnt know where to go or how. id be to afraid the school counolers would tell my parents and i just cant deal with them knowing. and ik my bf at least would want me to talk to him. hes been very suportive of me and always there for me. he wants to help but i can here it in his voice when i screw up and cut or get a quick drink or make plans to buy some drinks from ppl ik that hes dissapointed and hurt and i hate hurting him and bringing him down. and i know the drinking things not good and i dont wanna become an acholic but i just feel so crappy lateley and i resorted to it a lot in the summer but i made myself almost stop and i just keep remembering how it kinda helped and idk.
   
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Re: I just want this to pass :/ - April 8th 2011, 02:48 AM

hey, i'm not sure if this will help you or not, but i find it quite encouraging in the weirdest way.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JEMdXhfO-Wk

sometimes, ill just watch this part when i need a boost up. that is the inner nerd in me (: stay strong my dear.
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