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Question What do I do? - May 30th 2011, 10:02 PM

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My parents recently found out I am cutting. Now everyone, thinks I have a wierd diesease. I don't I am just depressed really badly. They also think I am suicidial and again I am not. What do I do??
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Re: What do I do? - May 31st 2011, 04:56 AM

I think it's hard for a lot of people to really understand cutting and what all it entails. Maybe you could sit down with them about what's going on. Let them know that yes, you cut. No, you don't have a disease. Yes, you're depressed. But no, you're not suicidal. I think that reassuring them that you aren't suicidal would be a good place to start. They might not understand a whole lot about cutting, so sitting down with them probably wouldn't be a bad thing. If you need anything, though, don't hesitate to PM me.


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Re: What do I do? - May 31st 2011, 05:08 AM

I agree with her ^.
Explain first of all that you aren't suicidal and that it's more of a coping thing for your depression. When people found out about mine, no one really assumed that I was suicidal but they watched for it. I would explain to them why you do it.

You can look up some more stuff online that can probably help you to explain why you do it and what it means to you and all of that.

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