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Unhappy Really upset - June 12th 2011, 01:56 AM

I really want to self harm. I am going through so much. I feel really lonely, sad, stressed and confused. I really don't know what to do.

I am being bullied by these girls at my school. They are calling me really mean names. They say that I am stupid, Ugly, fat, a loner, a loser and a failure. They also say that I have no friends. They are also threatening me.

My parents keep on hitting me. They hate me. They never listen to me all they care about are my siblings. Whenever my siblings do something they say I did it so they believe them and not me.

I keep on putting myself down. I call myself mean names and I have no confidence in myself. I hate being pushed away.

People keep pushing me away. Like noone ever listens to me or even want to listen and noone cares. Whenever I try talking to people such as my friends and family they always ignore me and push me away and then they want me to listen to them. Is there something wrong with me??

All I want is for someone to listen and care about me and too actually believe in me and tell me that I am not a failure or any of those other things that I think I am.

I think that hurting myself is my only option right now. It will make all the pain go away. By hurting myself I would cut. Everyone would be happy if I was gone. I think about cutting alot and one of these days I might actually do it. I think that everything is all my fault. Everyone says it is. It is really hard for me to think positive when theres so much negativity.

I really want to cry and hurt myself because then people won't have to feel sorry for me anymore. People say that people are only my friends because they feel sorry for me since no one wants to be my friend.

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Re: Really upset - June 12th 2011, 01:59 AM

There is nothing wrong with you
Talk to an adult at school about what's going on at home. If you're parents are hitting you, that's a serious issue and shouldn't be taken lightly at all.
There are tons of people in your life who are there to help, all you have to do is reach out to them, which can be scary, but almost always worth it.
Stay strong, and if you need anyone to talk to, I'm here, just PM me anytime!
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Re: Really upset - June 12th 2011, 02:03 AM

I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. But if people are threatening you and your parents are hitting you, you've got to tell someone. You can't let that kind of stuff go unknown. There are people that can help you. Trust me when I tell you that you aren't a failure. You aren't a loser. You aren't any of those negative things that people call you or that you tell yourself. And hurting yourself isn't the answer to the pain you're going through. I know that through experience. But none of this is your fault. Please believe that. If you need to talk to anyone, don't hesitate to PM me.

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Re: Really upset - June 12th 2011, 02:57 AM

i suggest the same thing the people above said, talk to an adult that you can trust or the cops, they can help fix it and youll feel alot better after it gets all fixed
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Re: Really upset - June 12th 2011, 11:55 AM

You should talk to the school guidance counselor or school physiologist. What is happening to you is not okay. They will be able to help and be adults you can trust.
Don't give up on yourself!
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Re: Really upset - June 12th 2011, 02:59 PM

I honestly think you should talk to someone about your family. It is not right that you are being treated that way. I know it's hard to do, but ignore what those girls are saying about you. None of it is true. Girls bully to make themselves feel better.

If you ever need to talk, PM me.

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