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Exclamation once, twice, back to the same old thing - August 2nd 2011, 05:56 AM

every since my best friend (and crush) found out i cut, he used to always ask me if i keeped cutting. i would lie saying that i stopped but he always knew so i gave up lying. every little scar made him cry. literally cry. and he never cries. so for him i stopped. and it was agonizing. i couldnt stop. so after a while i started hanging out less and less, barely tslking to him except nights. and i cut, cut where nobody would see. some how he knew and begged me to stop. i did. but that was about 2 months ago and life has been really terrible and i started cutting again. everytime i see him now, he would excuse himself from the others and grab me and take me away. he begs me to stop, knowing that cutting will lead to suicide for me. but i cant stop. i told him what it feels like. and he still begs me but not to get suicidal again. i dont want to have him crying and begging it just makes me feel cruel.


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Re: once, twice, back to the same old thing - August 2nd 2011, 12:00 PM

It is very difficult for self harmer trying to stop and good friends knowing. Reassure him that if you feel sucidal that you will get help. Also explain to him why you do it etc which it seems you have started to do.

Hang on in there things will get better it never seems like it, but believe me life will improve.

stay strong and well done for lasting 2 months that is something you should be proud of.

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