| Home | Get Advice | Register | Login | Mission | Support Forums | Articles | Videos | Resources | Volunteer | Donate | Contact Us |
|
||||||||||||||
| ||||||||||||||
 |
 |
You are not registered or have not logged in |
|
Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!) As a guest on TeenHelp you are only able to use some of our site's features. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to:
Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now! We hope you consider joining us and hope to see you around! |
| TeenHelp Features | |||
 |
|
 |
 |
| Search TeenHelpAdvanced |
 |
 |
|
|
Thread Tools | Search this Thread |
(#1 (permalink))
|
|
Member
Not a n00b
** 
Gender: Female
Location: Trinidad and Tobago
Posts: 69
Join Date: August 16th 2011
|
IDK -
September 27th 2011, 12:56 AM
This thread has been labeled as triggering, particularly on the subject of self harm, by the original poster or by a Moderator. The contents of this thread might therefore not be suitable for certain sensitive users. Please take this into consideration before continuing to read.
I haven't done it in 11 days and well it hurts so bad i wanna do it.
this what happened: i was talking to this person who i tell all my business to and i answered my phone in front of her and she got pissed and said she didn't want to talk to me so i left her alone Friday and i tried to talk to her today and she said i'm not ready to talk to her and i feel so ARRRGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i want to talk to her so bad it's just she doesn't want to talk to me yet and i'm getting frustrated and when i get frustrated i cut and i'm fighting the urge to do it mostly because i don't want to hurt her and it's just ARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
|
|
|
|
(#2 (permalink))
|
|
Fill my heart with love.
Experienced TeenHelper
****** 
Name: Ash
Gender: Female
Location: Lost in my heart...
Posts: 502
Join Date: June 4th 2011
|
Re: IDK -
September 27th 2011, 10:16 PM
Breathe. Just breathe. In through ur nose for 3 hold for 3 then out through your mouth for 3. Just be calm.
Listen to music, draw, write, go on a run, anything to get your mind off it. When your friend is ready to talk, she'll talk. Also check out these alternatives to self harm. Stay strong! <3 "When you've forgiven but you cant forget feels like your drowning but still got breath"
i love you. YOU are beautiful no matter what and dont YOU forget it!!! <3 PM me if you need to talk!(:  |
|
|
|
|
(#3 (permalink))
|
|
Nomatophobia: fear of a name.
Regular TeenHelper
***** 
Name: Snooks
Gender: Female
Location: Right here.
Posts: 405
Join Date: November 4th 2010
|
Re: IDK -
September 28th 2011, 11:00 AM
Try approaching her and calmly discuss what happened on Friday and that you need to talk to her again. Take deep breaths and count to ten. Until you talk to this girl again, find some other outlet to cutting.
Un dia sin ti es como un año sin ver llover
|
  |
|
|
(#4 (permalink))
|
|
Member
Not a n00b
**
Gender: Female
Location: Trinidad and Tobago
Posts: 69
Join Date: August 16th 2011
|
Re: IDK -
September 29th 2011, 03:53 AM
tanx guys, i do draw, write and make stuff like key chains. i don't want to sound all down in the dumps or just looking at the bad side of it but she DOESN'T want to talk to me and alternatives are not helping i'm getting worse plus she's stuck in my mind. i space out thinking about her and how she feels about what i did it's just really AAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHH!!!! i mean i'm trying for the sake of seeing her smile i won't cut or i'll try not to but it's so hard. her not talking just pushes me to a point of frustration and gosh it's hard but i want to be better for me, for her. she tries so hard with me and i hurt her every time it sucks so bad.
|
|
|
|
|
| Bookmarks |
| Tags |
| idk |
| Thread Tools | Search this Thread |
|
|
