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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help.

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selfharm free? - October 25th 2011, 12:28 AM

sometimes i just lurk and read the other posts on here and i see things like

"been selfharm freee for 2 months!"
"3 months"
"a year" !!!!!


iv never gone more than 3 weeks and that was only once and that was 2 years ago. since then iv never gone more than a week without selfharming and well i feel so danm pathetic that I cant just stop it
and iv been doing this for such a long time, i dont think i could ever stop
   
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Re: selfharm free? - October 25th 2011, 12:52 AM

you aren't pathetic, i promise. you are strong, i know it's hard, im going through it too :/ i've hardly gone longer than a week lately too. but im sure you will be able to do it, no i dont know you, but you want to stop, you want to change things, that's the first step. I wish you luck, and im sure you can do it. keep you're head up, everything will be okay
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Re: selfharm free? - October 25th 2011, 01:04 AM

Trust me, you're not pathetic. You'll be able to do it. Find an alternative that works for you and please stay strong. We're all here supporting you, and it's a lot of hard work, but I'm sure you can do this. Everybody relapses sometimes, I'm sure you'll get back soon enough.


   
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Re: selfharm free? - October 25th 2011, 01:34 AM

its just im having a hard time finding something that works for me yah know? i feel like iv tried everything and sometimes the urges get so bad, i get aches and i have trouble breathing. im not really sure what to do :/
   
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Re: selfharm free? - October 25th 2011, 02:52 AM

Like they said. You just have something that works. It took me 3 yrs untill I do and I know you can do it!!


I love you<3 I'm here for you!! PM me or VM me for anything you need!!!STAY STRONG!
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