| Home | Get Advice | Register | Login | Mission | Support Forums | Articles | Videos | Resources | Volunteer | Donate | Contact Us |
|
||||||||||||||
| ||||||||||||||
 |
 |
You are not registered or have not logged in |
|
Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!) As a guest on TeenHelp you are only able to use some of our site's features. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to:
Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now! We hope you consider joining us and hope to see you around! |
| TeenHelp Features | |||
 |
|
 |
 |
| Search TeenHelpAdvanced |
 |
 |
|
|
Thread Tools | Search this Thread |
(#1 (permalink))
|
|
Member
Welcome me, I'm new!
* 
Age: 20
Posts: 3
Join Date: December 20th 2011
|
I don't want to stop -
December 20th 2011, 09:21 PM
I'm new to posting online and with online message boards. This is the first time I've done this. I have been cutting on and off for the past 3 years and I can't seem to stop, nor do I want to. I know it's not good but it makes me feel better, be less agitated, happier and stress-free. I told my boyfriend of 5 months about my cutting a week ago and promised him I'd try to stop. I haven't cut since I told him I'd try but I'm becoming more and more agitated and upset as the days go on without cutting. I don't know what to do. I know if I cut I'll feel better but I know he'll be so disappointed in me and I don't want to hurt him
|
|
|
|
|
(#2 (permalink))
|
|
Member
Not a n00b
** 
Name: Blaine
Age: 17
Gender: Male
Location: United States of America
Posts: 90
Join Date: November 15th 2011
|
Re: I don't want to stop -
December 21st 2011, 02:45 AM
Hi There--
I'm sorry that you feel like you can't stop. Why don't you want to stop? Maybe you could talk to your boyfriend about this and try to get through this together. I am sure that he wants to help you and prevent you from hurting yourself. I think that it would be a good choice to talk to him. You can PM me anytime!  Stay Safe, BlaineG. |
 |
|
|
(#4 (permalink))
|
|
nelipot.
 I can't get enough ********* 
Name: Jessie
Age: 17
Gender: Female
Location: A place where I can watch the sunset.
Posts: 3,170
Join Date: January 31st 2009
|
Re: I don't want to stop -
December 21st 2011, 01:22 PM
Hi there.
I agree with whats already been said. Try talking to your boyfriend and ask him for support if that is what YOU want. However, I think to stop self harming, you need to want too stop. I think that if you don't want to stop, you're not going to believe in yourself, find the reasons to keep beating it when you have urges and have the determination you need. You need to do this when you want too. And as hard as it is, I believe you can do it. I think you need to think about the pros and cons about self harm. If you want to talk to me you can PM me anytime. That's personal message by the way  Take care, Jessie. 'You don't always have to be positive, but you need to put things into perspective.' - 17/5/12 Selfharmforummod| MentalHealthforummodlHelpLinkmentor|Blogmod|LiveHelpoperator|Depressionandsuicideforummod |
|
|
|
|
(#5 (permalink))
|
|
punk rocker with attitude
Senior TeenHelper
******* 
Name: Jennifer
Age: 25
Gender: Female
Location: Three rivers Mi
Posts: 799
Join Date: January 6th 2009
|
Re: I don't want to stop -
December 21st 2011, 02:38 PM
if you don't feel safe asking your boyfriend for help I"m sure there's someone else that will help you. And exacrtly what Jessie said, you have to want to stop. It's like walking if you want to walk you need to take the first step. Same goes with SH. It isn't always easy to see why you'd want to stop.
And to answer your question PM means to private message if someone's online you can usually PM them
You can't live a positive life with a negative mind and if you have a positive outcome you have a positive income and just to have more positivity and just to kind of laugh it off. ~ Miley Cyrus   |
  |
|
|
| Bookmarks |
| Tags |
| stop |
| Thread Tools | Search this Thread |
|
|
