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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help with any questions you have.

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want to cut. - January 2nd 2012, 10:06 AM

Omg to many problems wanna cut so bad i hate my mom .

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Re: want to cut. - January 2nd 2012, 12:09 PM

Why do you hate your mum?

You can beat this urge. Look on the alternatives thread and pick a few and try them out.

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Re: want to cut. - January 2nd 2012, 02:25 PM

Hi There!

Please don't cut I know that its hard right now and the fact that you want to cut is all that you are thinking about but you need to stay strong. You can do it.

As said above...

Why do you hate your mom?


Here are something that you can try to distract yourself...

1) Squeeze ice cubes in your hands.

2) Put a rubber band on your wrist and snap it.

There are a lot of different things you can do to distract yourself so you can avoid cutting.


Please stay safe and feel free to PM me if you need anything.


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Re: want to cut. - January 2nd 2012, 03:59 PM

Hi there.

I don't know what's going on with your mum right now but if you want to talk to us about to, you can reply back to this. You could also make a thread in 'Family and friends' too :-)

I am assuming that the urges you're having and triggering by what's going on with your mum. Either way, you hurting yourself is not going to get rid of that issue and in reality it's not going to help you but it could make things worse. I know it's hard but you are worth more than self harm and you can beat this urges. Do what ever it takes to keep yourself safe. Try checking out the list of alternatives. Not everything will help you so it is all about trial and error and finding the ones which do help you. It's not going to make the issues go away either but it will help you beat the urges, once you find something which helps.

Just hang on in there, I know it's hard but you don't need to hurt yourself. It's not going to help and you ARE worth more than it so keep on fighting.

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