TeenHelp



You are not registered or have not logged in

Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!)

As a guest on TeenHelp you are only able to use some of our site's features. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to:

Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now!

We hope you consider joining us and hope to see you around!


TeenHelp Features
HelpLINK
Articles Videos

Search TeenHelpAdvanced


Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help with any questions you have.

Closed Thread
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
  (#1 (permalink)) Old
Rebekah231369 Offline
Member
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
Rebekah231369's Avatar
 

Posts: 11
Join Date: October 20th 2011

Smile Please read. If I can do it so can you - February 1st 2012, 07:19 AM

Hey everyone out there my name is Rebecca I'm almost 14 and fought with cutting for 8 months. For a month I cut every day at least sometimes twice a day. My dad left my best friend turned on me I had no one until one day my frien who is like a brother to me called me and said he was giving me a week to tel my mom about my SH if I didn't he would tell her for me. I was breaking I didnt know how I could live without it. Here I am almost 2 months later SH free. So I just wanted to let you all know those feelings fade never go all the way away but they fade to almost nothing. And there is always a happy ending I'm so glad I'm done with it. Just remember stay strong and it will get better. You guys are strong I know it. Messagee me if you need
   
  (#2 (permalink)) Old
Artistic Soul Offline
ROBsessed! <3
Experienced TeenHelper
******
 
Artistic Soul's Avatar
 
Name: Manasvi (Mandy)
Age: 14
Gender: Girly Girl! ^_^ <3
Location: A hidden, faaaaar-off world where people love each other and everything is just perfect. :)

Posts: 577
Join Date: December 16th 2011

Re: Please read. If I can do it so can you - February 1st 2012, 07:45 AM

Hey there! It's really good to know that you are self-harm free now. Happy Recovery!
xx



"It is better to burn out than to fade away."
~Kurt Cobain (Nirvana)
   
  (#3 (permalink)) Old
MyNamesNot..RICK. (:
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
KenworthsCoughdrop94's Avatar
 
Name: Rickayla
Age: 17
Gender: Female
Location: Ohio

Posts: 9
Join Date: January 24th 2012

Re: Please read. If I can do it so can you - February 1st 2012, 07:59 AM

Congrats on being SH free!
I am struggling right now, but I am hoping to get better in the near future!
Stay strong!


"Never try and be something you're not, because either way you won't be accepted."
   
  (#4 (permalink)) Old
Dez Offline
I'll be okay...

Outside, huh?
**********
 
Dez's Avatar
 
Name: Desiree or Dez
Age: 15
Gender: Female
Location: FOR IRAW!!! ...And Connecticut

Posts: 3,745
Join Date: November 16th 2010

Re: Please read. If I can do it so can you - February 1st 2012, 10:22 AM

I am so glad that you are self harm free! It's really great.

I'm having a bit of a hard time as well right know but I know it will get better.


Sing, the last thing on your mind
The last word on your breath
I'll be the one to keep you
I'll keep you at your best



<font size=1><b><font face=Courier New>
  </font></b></font>
Self Expression Forum Mod 4/23/12
  Send a message via AIM to Dez Send a message via MSN to Dez Send a message via Yahoo to Dez  
  (#5 (permalink)) Old
Unfortunate Offline
Used to be bsc98
I've been here a while
********
 
Unfortunate's Avatar
 
Name: Dionna
Gender: Female
Location: Lost in my own world but i live in the US

Posts: 1,225
Join Date: March 13th 2011

Re: Please read. If I can do it so can you - February 2nd 2012, 03:45 AM

Congrats on being SH free for 2 months! That is a huge accomplishment.
Im am getting better, was not doing good but im slowly getting better.



Stay Strong

If you need someone to talk to im always here.
PM me any time. <3
Don't stop believin'
  Send a message via Skype™ to Unfortunate 
  (#6 (permalink)) Old
Childish Giggle Offline
Happy Feet :hehe:

I've been here a while
********
 
Childish Giggle's Avatar
 
Name: Suvieeeeeeee
Age: 16
Gender: Female
Location: Very far away from here, beyond right and wrong, there is a place, you'll find me there........

Posts: 1,079
Join Date: January 9th 2011

Re: Please read. If I can do it so can you - February 2nd 2012, 11:01 AM

Hey there!
Congratulations! You are doing great!


Spread "Jaadu ki Jhhappis" - The Magic Hugs


Buddy - 28th January 2012
HelpLINK Mentor - 20th March 2012
Why Me? Forum Moderator - 26th March 2012
Articles Team - 11th May 2012
Videos Officer - 13th May 2012


Its easier said that done BUT most of the great things wouldn't have ever been done if they hadn't been said first.


Quote:
Originally Posted by Veryworried View Post

I think the best thing about this site is that it doesn't give you a lecture and just tell you to "stop" it actually gives you alternatives and support from people who understand.



Rest in Peace Peter Warwick. <3 I'll miss you.
   
  (#7 (permalink)) Old
Rebekah231369 Offline
Member
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
Rebekah231369's Avatar
 

Posts: 11
Join Date: October 20th 2011

Re: Please read. If I can do it so can you - February 2nd 2012, 02:03 PM

Listen its not worth doing. There are so many different better ways to control your emotions. I wish I never would have done it in the first place.
   
  (#8 (permalink)) Old
Lost One
Not a n00b
**
 
Void of Creation's Avatar
 
Name: Shively
Age: 13
Gender: Female
Location: Gone. From This Reality.

Posts: 50
Join Date: February 2nd 2012

Re: Please read. If I can do it so can you - February 2nd 2012, 11:12 PM

i self harmed from the 6th grade until the end of 7th. i'm in 8th now, and have been done with all of my crap for about half a year now.well, i still think about it, and sometimes i pick at my scars, but i'm still trying to hang on to being clean.


We...are not alone. Not until we choose to be. Choose your fate. Defy life and become your own. Don't conform.



   
  (#9 (permalink)) Old
DivingCheska Offline
It's A Complicated Life
Senior TeenHelper
*******
 
DivingCheska's Avatar
 
Name: Frankie
Age: 20
Gender: Female
Location: Here!

Posts: 980
Join Date: January 7th 2009

Re: Please read. If I can do it so can you - February 2nd 2012, 11:34 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Rebekah231369 View Post
Hey everyone out there my name is Rebecca I'm almost 14 and fought with cutting for 8 months. For a month I cut every day at least sometimes twice a day. My dad left my best friend turned on me I had no one until one day my frien who is like a brother to me called me and said he was giving me a week to tel my mom about my SH if I didn't he would tell her for me. I was breaking I didnt know how I could live without it. Here I am almost 2 months later SH free. So I just wanted to let you all know those feelings fade never go all the way away but they fade to almost nothing. And there is always a happy ending I'm so glad I'm done with it. Just remember stay strong and it will get better. You guys are strong I know it. Messagee me if you need
Congratulations I know how hard it can be to stop cutting

Quote:
Originally Posted by Rebekah231369 View Post
Listen its not worth doing. There are so many different better ways to control your emotions. I wish I never would have done it in the first place.
You have to remember not everyone who stops cutting is going to regret it at all. I was cut free for 4 years and I never regretted cutting or my scars on any one of those days. NI had no slip ups at all. I got out of the hospital and from then on was cut free but I have started again. And a lot of people cut because that is there only way of coping with things so just keep that in mind that although you were able to quit cutting some of us might not be able too.


As the smoke clears
I awaken, and untangle you from me
Would it make you, feel better to watch me while I bleed?
All my windows, still are broken
But I'm standing on my feet

LOVE=LOVE NO MATTER WHAT
  Send a message via AIM to DivingCheska Send a message via MSN to DivingCheska Send a message via Yahoo to DivingCheska  
  (#10 (permalink)) Old
bitesize Offline
Member since April '07
I can't get enough
*********
 
bitesize's Avatar
 
Age: 21
Gender: Female
Location: Ireland.

Posts: 3,112
Join Date: January 7th 2009

Re: Please read. If I can do it so can you - February 2nd 2012, 11:37 PM

Congratulations, I'm glad you were able to stop.x


Don't take life too seriously; no one gets out alive anyway.

Reach for the stars so if you fall you land on a cloud ~ Kanye West

Mistakes are minimized by experience and experience is maximised by mistakes.

   
Closed Thread

Bookmarks

Tags
read

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off





All material copyright ©1998-2012, TeenHelp Inc. All rights reserved.
TeenHelp Inc. is a registered 501(c)(3) not-for-profit organisation in the United States of America.
Terms | Legal | Privacy | Conduct

Powered by vBulletin®.
Copyright ©2000-2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search engine optimization by vBSEO.
Theme developed in association with vBStyles.