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Angry Church >:-( - February 5th 2012, 12:44 PM

It is SO FREAKING HARD to get dressed for church when you're a cutter! I have a very limited selection of nice clothes, and my church is really dressy... And NONE of them are long sleeves. So what the hell am I supposed to wear?!?! My mom will get mad at me for wearing a million bazillion fucking hair ties around my wrist.... This sucks. I am so confused....
Damn it, I hate cutting. I really do.


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Re: Church >:-( - February 5th 2012, 01:11 PM

smart top and a cardigan or put a smart top on and wear a long sleeved top underneath.




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Re: Church >:-( - February 5th 2012, 05:39 PM

I'm in a sorority and we have what's called "badge attire" aka nice clothing that's church/business appropriate. Cardigans, long pants, and tights really helped me out.


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Re: Church >:-( - February 5th 2012, 06:18 PM

Thank goodness I finally found a sweater to wear.... Very happy


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Re: Church >:-( - February 16th 2012, 12:57 AM

I'm glad you found something! Also, a lot of places sell really elaborate arm warmers that you can wear with your dress. They have them in silk too, and that's very dressy. If you can't find any in a dress store or the mall, the Internet had loads to choose from! If you live with a parent/guardian, you could just tell your parent/guardian that you get really cold in church.
   
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Re: Church >:-( - February 16th 2012, 01:06 AM

Thats why I switched to doing it on my legs more. God loves you know matter what even if you cut he loves you {: He wants you to get better. Huggss


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Re: Church >:-( - February 16th 2012, 01:10 AM

This may be an issue, but maybe you should try to find ways to stop cutting. It'll help more not only getting dressed for church, but with so much more. I'm an ex cutter and haven't cut for 2 years. Message me if you'd like


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Re: Church >:-( - February 16th 2012, 04:44 AM

Great job on not cutting for 2 years thats really great so proud of you. I one time stopped cutting for a year but then went back to it. }: hate that I went back to it.


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Re: Church >:-( - February 18th 2012, 09:21 PM

I'd say you've gotta try and quit cutting..
   
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Re: Church >:-( - February 18th 2012, 09:28 PM

I have gotten better with it, my wrists are almost clear now and I don't cut much at all anymore . Hope I can keep it up. And thanks guys


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