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Exclamation WHEN SHOULD I TELL HIM?!?!?! - February 10th 2012, 03:43 PM

I got a BF on tues. and im already thinking of when im going to tell him i used to cut and have slip-ups from time to time... WHEN SHOULD I TELL HIM???????

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Re: WHEN SHOULD I TELL HIM?!?!?! - February 10th 2012, 08:04 PM

Tell him whenever it feels right! Make sure that you trust him enough with this and that he shouldn't take it lightly! I'd wait for awhile, personally. But that's up to you, you have to do what you think is for the best!! If you trust him enough and think that your ready to open up to him now, then go for it. Remember, just because your dating him doesn't mean he has to know everything about you right away!


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Re: WHEN SHOULD I TELL HIM?!?!?! - February 11th 2012, 11:45 AM

There is never going to be a 'perfect' time to tell him.. But I would say the sooner the better! If you explain to the whole story hopefully he will understand and accept it.

   
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Re: WHEN SHOULD I TELL HIM?!?!?! - February 13th 2012, 05:15 AM

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Re: WHEN SHOULD I TELL HIM?!?!?! - February 13th 2012, 06:20 PM

It's not going to be easy to tell him and there won't ever be a time when it's easy to tell him either - but tell him when you feel like the time is right to do so. If he cares about you he will probably be more concerned about you than anything else.



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