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help me got called not pretty - February 23rd 2012, 02:13 AM

i got called ugly...she didnt say the exact words but i asked it ok you can call me ugly i know i am and she said yeah i was trying to put in a nicer way sorry i feel like hurting myself so bad right now i cant take it anymore......i need help
   
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Re: help me got called not pretty - February 23rd 2012, 03:16 AM

Don't listen to people who say these things about you, no matter what you are BEAUTIFUL! Don't hurt yourself because of what other people think it's not worth it! Please try to fight the urges darling, you can always ALWAYS PM me if you want somebody to talk too!


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Re: help me got called not pretty - February 23rd 2012, 04:07 AM

You shouldn't pay any attention to people who say things like this about you. They're either jealous, or insecure about their own looks. You are beautiful and don't deserve to be called anything less If you ever need anyone to talk to, don't hesitate to pm me. Stay safe.



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Re: help me got called not pretty - February 23rd 2012, 04:55 AM

I know how that feels. I'm from a family that does not hesitate at all to point out your flaws. I know how much it hurts and I know how comforting hurting yourself can be. But, you have to realize that you can't give them that much power. You are beautiful, and if someone can't see that, then screw them. It's a hard thing to believe, but it's also true. You can also pm me if you want to talk.
   
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Re: help me got called not pretty - February 23rd 2012, 04:22 PM

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i got called ugly...she didnt say the exact words but i asked it ok you can call me ugly i know i am and she said yeah i was trying to put in a nicer way sorry i feel like hurting myself so bad right now i cant take it anymore......i need help

I'm sorry you feel bad and feel like hurting yourself, but you should try to be a little more careful in what you say. I don't think the blame can be entirely put on her, since you did tell her it was okay to call you ugly. Ugly and pretty are relative terms. Different people have different opinions, even if that's her opinion there are people out there that disagree. You should try to raise your self-confidence because that alone can make people find you more attractive...it doesn't even have everything to do with looks. Try not to let other peoples' opinions bother you so much, the only one that counts is your own.



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