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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help.

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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - November 25th 2014, 06:07 PM

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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - November 25th 2014, 08:13 PM

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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - November 25th 2014, 11:17 PM

Reading, writing and talking to people.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - November 26th 2014, 10:32 PM

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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - November 28th 2014, 12:14 AM

Writing, drawing and helping mum.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - November 29th 2014, 03:11 AM

Staying all warm and cozy in bed and talking to a friend.


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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - November 29th 2014, 05:02 AM

Talking to my friend and writing.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - November 30th 2014, 06:12 PM

I go to counseling and I have an AWESOME, AMAZING supportive husband who I love!!
















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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 1st 2014, 04:24 PM

Doing classwork and listening to music!


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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 2nd 2014, 07:06 PM

Homework, Christmas music, and Tumblr.


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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 2nd 2014, 07:46 PM

Listening to music and studying.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 2nd 2014, 10:28 PM

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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 8th 2014, 12:21 AM

I've been sleeping.


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Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first


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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 9th 2014, 08:38 AM

Talking to friends, cooking and music.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 9th 2014, 03:03 PM

By being nice to myself
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 9th 2014, 07:56 PM

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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 10th 2014, 05:31 AM

Trying to be calm.

Me 1: calmdowncalmdowncalmdown now now now now
Me 2: gee thanks, I feel so much better
): I also took out a sheet of paper and wrote stuff in red marker that were kinda negative about myself and putting myself down but at least I'm not physically harming anyone? I gotta work on the internalized stuff though.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 10th 2014, 06:17 AM

Writing, studying and cooking.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 10th 2014, 08:14 AM

Watching tv and writing.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 12th 2014, 05:31 PM

I'm at school and didn't bring anything with me. I have one more class left so I'll be going to the nearby park. When I come home I'll take a well needed nap and hang out with my cat.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 13th 2014, 09:06 PM

Doing some Christmas shopping and trying to relax.


If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
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Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first


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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 13th 2014, 10:46 PM

I'm listening to music as well as working on Christmas cards and shopping.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 13th 2014, 10:51 PM

Biting my nails!



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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 14th 2014, 01:17 AM

By drinking coffee.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 15th 2014, 06:24 AM

I wrote a poem and I also wrote about what was bothering me at the time.


If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
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Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first


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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 15th 2014, 05:21 PM

Playing guitar.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 16th 2014, 04:12 PM

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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 16th 2014, 04:24 PM

Watching Christmas movies and writing.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 18th 2014, 09:34 AM

Watching movies, baking and eating.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 19th 2014, 02:38 AM

Wrapping presents!


If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 19th 2014, 02:43 AM

Writing and playing guitar.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 19th 2014, 04:55 AM

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Listening to music, talking to people and writing.
what i did was i found someone who wouldn't let me hurt myself and who showed me the beauty in myself that i couldn't see for myself but until i found that person i did all of the above. and now i'm fine and healthy and happy. :] ~o~
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 19th 2014, 09:15 AM

Writing and listening to music.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 20th 2014, 05:57 PM

I'm writing and watching Christmas movies!
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 22nd 2014, 04:29 AM

I've been going on TeenHelp, and writing.


If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first


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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 22nd 2014, 04:38 AM

I'm listening to music and talking to people.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 22nd 2014, 07:30 AM

Writing and coffee.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 23rd 2014, 03:48 AM

Listening to music and grounding myself.


If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
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Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first


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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 23rd 2014, 09:23 AM

Writing and drinking my favorite mocktail.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? - December 23rd 2014, 02:37 PM

Making sure I have no sharp objects in my room. Having a mentor or someone I can call when I'm struggling. Counseling. TEARING PAPER! It really works. Especially if you draw a picture of the person who wronged you on it and then slash the paper. Iv also torn up a newspaper before. Helps. ^_^


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