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Scared :/ - May 19th 2012, 03:00 AM

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So I know for a fact that I have "Fetal Alcohol Syndrome n was Positive of Cocaine at birth n has Hep C!"

But I just found out that I have a New Condition "ADHD!"

All do to my Birth Mother but I'm adopted now, but I'm scared w/ everything I don't kno bout my History or my Mothers History n I Deffently don't kno who my Father is Bc of wat she was doing!
I'm afraid Its going to wreck my Life n the more I figure out along the road.

But Why Me? I just feel like crying have the time!


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Re: Scared :/ - May 20th 2012, 01:58 AM

Hey,

ADHD isn't that big of a deal, it's actually highly treatable and manageable.
It's understandable that you're upset about all of this stuff - I have no idea how I would cope if it was me in your situation - but as for ADHD, well, there's medications that help, and there's also things like CBT which can help you with things like planning and organising yourself which you may find difficult as a result of this.

This is not going to wreck your life, things can only wreck your life if you let them. It comes down to choices, you can choose to be strong and to find ways to work with your issues!

Family history may be a bit of an issue with not knowing what to expect, but each time something new comes up, ask your doctor or your adoptive parents for information about it, and use every opportunity you get to learn how to cope with your stuff and live successfully. You can do it!

As for why you . . . well, I don't know. Life isn't fair and it's also not easy. But we make the most of what we've got. Enjoy being who you are, everyone is unique, has their own little things that make life worthwhile for them. Spend time doing these things and spend time appreciating what you have, and then questions of why you have certain things seem less important.
   
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Re: Scared :/ - May 20th 2012, 01:43 PM

Thanx but its just getting hard to handle. Everything tat comes new to me....idk anymore


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Re: Scared :/ - May 23rd 2012, 02:58 AM

. Hello, there. First. Take a deep breath. Its going to be alright. Your not alone. Harming ykurself won't change whats taken place. Try to meditate, its easy. Just sit in a secluded room ny yourself, close your eyes and repeat "I am just as capable as any, I am just as strong. While doing this consentrate on all the good you can find in your life, and hold it in memory. Allow no bad karma, no negative thought to remove these thoughts of happiness. They will try to surface but every time try pushing them back by a powerful good memory. Allow your mind to sink into these thoughts of happiness, put up walls. Imagen your in a theatre the walls solid concrete, and nothing can get through. Cause this your own personal theatre. Any bad thought, anything that causes pain is gone and not allowed. Take another deep breth cause your in a safe place were only good memories project across the screen. Anything bad that you feel that might slip in workit to your advantage, change its charact. Tell it it will please you and not harm you. Turn away from it cause this your happy movie. And it should vanish. Mute in out by turning up the volume of your own happy memories. Eventaully after being ignore these thoughts will turn away. Leaving your theatre, tired of being ignored. Use this everyday until you are happy and your will to exterminate them will grow un-stoppable.
   
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Re: Scared :/ - May 23rd 2012, 03:00 AM

Take care.
   
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Re: Scared :/ - May 23rd 2012, 01:46 PM

Relax and calm down, first I have ADHD and its not the end of the world that you have that now.

I'm also adopted and wonder what history she had as well. But I know this is all hard on you but you go to look up, you were adopted by a very lovely couple who wanted you so badly. So be happy. Also God has a plan for you too. So you just got to believe in yourself.



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