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i'm too vulnerable. /: - August 18th 2009, 05:06 PM

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Re: i'm too vulnerable. /: - August 18th 2009, 05:47 PM

hello there :]
Im not sure what is actually wrong, so im not sure what to say. But i am happy to listen to you (:
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Re: i'm too vulnerable. /: - August 18th 2009, 05:52 PM

Hi there!

Can you enlighten us a bit more as to why you think you are so vulnerable? That might help us help you.
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Re: i'm too vulnerable. /: - August 18th 2009, 06:05 PM

i get hurt so easily. the littlest comment can hurt me so much, and i feel like i'm being weakened. i'm too susceptible to get hurt. and gah.


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Re: i'm too vulnerable. /: - August 19th 2009, 12:14 AM

Hi there, Kayla. :]

I can relate to getting hurt by what people say--it happens to me all the time. I know how tough it can be. But I wanted to let you know that you're not alone in feeling like this. Just because you get hurt by small comments now doesn't mean it will be like this forever.

Have you considered talking to someone about this? If the reason you feel like this is due to confidence issues, try to talk to someone who will bring you up. Or try saying positive things about yourself. Have you ever heard the phrase, "Fake it till you make it"? Even if you have to fake being confident, eventually you will become confident.

If you need anything, please feel free to PM/VM me. :]
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Re: i'm too vulnerable. /: - August 24th 2009, 11:34 AM

hey kayla.

sometimes people say the wrong thing but they dont mean it. just remember that some of them might say things out of mischief or mean it as a joke. but the thing is that people all have insecurities. dont worry too much.. cause we too have been hurt by comments and words before.

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Re: i'm too vulnerable. /: - August 25th 2009, 09:57 PM

Hey Kayla,

I'm just about the EXACT same way as you are. I totally understand what your feeling right now. What I have tried to do is try and think that you are better then them.



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Re: i'm too vulnerable. /: - August 26th 2009, 04:25 AM

Hello Kayla. I know what you are going through. I am so emotionally vulnerable and it really does suck. But sometimes you just have to ignore what people are saying to you and just be like, what the hell, they don't know me. Teens can be so hurtful but a lot of them are just trying to cover up for their own faults. Its okay to be sad and hurt sometimes, but try not to let it control your life. Shed tears, but try to laugh more often. Hang with the friends that truly care about you and you to them.
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