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Porn Addict leading on... - December 25th 2012, 04:58 AM

I am a 15 year old girl and i need help. i don't know what to do. I always look at porn and i always thinking bout sex. i finger myself often and use tools sometimes. it has gotten so bad i picture what sexx would be like with any person round me and get horny at the drop of a pen. it has gotten to where i have thought about all consequences and i really want a baby now. I work at a daycare and know what it means to take care of a baby. but i want one of my own. i need advice on what to do.
   
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Re: Porn Addict leading on... - December 25th 2012, 10:19 AM

Hey! I know at these teen years our hormones can be a little crazy sometimes... I think about sex a lot as well and watch porn a lot. Porn is okay every once in awhile but if your hormones and everything is continuing to get worse then it's obviously effecting your daily life. I'd try dragging yourself away from the computer more and more. Staying in the room with people a lot so you can't masturbate and watch porn. Try to cut porn out of your life a little at a time and remember that relieving yourself is normal and healthy as long as it's not an addiction.

Limit masturbation.
Go for a walk or run
Find a new hobby/do other hobbies you enjoy

Anything to take your mind off it. As for sex and pregnancy... Pregnancy at such a young age is a pretty bad choice no offence. You may think you'd have it under control but it's really unstable to go and have sex to get pregnant without a stable relationship and a lot of money saved up. Plus you still have school.

It's really good to wait till you're finished with the main education, have a stable and long-term relationship plus a pretty good amount of money because babies are expensive and you can't work for awhile after birth. It's a lot to manage all by yourself. You still have so much life to live, so many experiences to have before pregnancy and raising a baby into a good person for 18 years and probably more. Please take this into consideration and wait so you and your future baby can have a better life.

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Re: Porn Addict leading on... - December 28th 2012, 03:23 AM

First things first, you need to know that what you're feeling is perfectly normal. You're 15, right? You're at an age where your hormones start going crazy. It's definitely something that everyone has gone through, is going through, or will go through. So, don't be so worried about whether or not this is a huge problem. Masturbation and such truly only becomes a problem when it begins to interfere with your daily life so much that you aren't leaving time to do the things that you need to be doing.

That being said, wanting a baby probably isn't the best option right now. Even though you're working at a daycare, that can't fully prepare you for what would come if you were to have a baby. Right now, you don't have a stable job. You aren't finished with your education. Also, you should be taking this time to be a teenager, not a mother. Right now, it's better for both you and your future child that you wait until things are a little more stable in your life.


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Re: Porn Addict leading on... - January 4th 2013, 01:30 PM

It's OK I still think about sex a lot it's normal it really is hormones and all. Now wanting a kid at your age is not the best idea. Wait till you are older to her a kid.
   
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