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Addictive Behaviours Discuss and receive support for addictions not related to substance use, such as gambling, Internet, sex or work addictions, in this forum.

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Pornography - Urgent - August 19th 2009, 05:34 PM

Hey im 15 and i am addicted to pornogrophy, i think evry type u can possibly find.

Its making me miserable and i feel so guilty but i cannot stop it!
im new to this Forum and not shure if this is the right place to post it but i realy, realy need help.

No matter how much i try and pray nothing gets better, i cannot go on like this its breaking me apart.

I cannot tell my perants, they wont understand, someone PLS, what can i do?

Thanx in advance

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Re: Pornography - Urgent - August 19th 2009, 05:44 PM

Hey there, welcome to TeenHelp, and don't worry, this should be the right forum for this thing.

First of all, i think it's good that you've admitted and acknowledged that you have this problem.

How many hours a day do you spend looking at it? Maybe reduce it by half an hour every day or something. Whatever you decide, don't try and give it up all in one go. Work on reducing one thing at once, e.g. the time you spend on one type of pornography, until you don't want to look at it, then reduce time on others. If you try and stop it completely it's less likely to work.

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Re: Pornography - Urgent - August 19th 2009, 05:45 PM

Don't feel guilty! Personally I am not a fan of it but it is completely normal.


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Re: Pornography - Urgent - August 19th 2009, 05:59 PM

hey thanx alot for replying, honestly i didnt think thered be a reply so fast, thing is, im busy with other stuff an then it just happens , i cant think , ive tried so many times but when it starts it just leads to more and other types of porn.

Im depressed for most time of the day.

And i look at it anything from 5 mins to 1 - 2 hours

EDIT: srry didnt hav the time to look at all the forum sections, i was having a "breakdown", joined an just posted the first place that looked ok

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Re: Pornography - Urgent - August 19th 2009, 06:50 PM

Hey there.

There is really no need to be all upset about this, it is normal.

On the other hand if it something that you are wanting to stop, or do less of, then we need to have a think about things.

Maybe when you start to think about pornography you could just log of the computer until the urge passes??

Or maybe set up some sort of reward scheme? So if you don't do it for a whole day your allowed to....- I dunno...buy sweets - (Brain dead - but you get my drift) !?!

It is I guess the same as any addictive behavior, you need to ween yourself off it gradually. And make it worthwhile NOT doing it. Maybe you could use google for methods of reducing addictive behavior?

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Re: Pornography - Urgent - August 19th 2009, 06:54 PM

It's normal. Just don't let it effect your relationship if you get/have a girlfriend. That's when you need to worry.


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Re: Pornography - Urgent - August 19th 2009, 08:23 PM

Thanx alot guys, ill try it and hope for the best.
ur replies really meens alot to me
   
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Re: Pornography - Urgent - August 22nd 2009, 02:28 AM

Try to keep yourself busy by doing other things and don't think about it.
   
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Re: Pornography - Urgent - August 22nd 2009, 04:11 AM

I'd recommend masturbating without porn. If that doesn't stop your libido for awhile, then you have a problem.



   
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Re: Pornography - Urgent - August 29th 2009, 08:13 PM

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I'd recommend masturbating without porn. If that doesn't stop your libido for awhile, then you have a problem.
Uh...

...or, you know, it might just be that during your teens you start getting more and more sexually active...

Don't worry about it dude, there's nothing wrong with watching porn.
   
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