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Question Addicted to video sex? - July 1st 2011, 01:18 AM

Hey, so I'm not sure what to really put here since this is my first thread, but I think I'm addicted to video sex and I know it's taking a toll on m because i feel depressed all the time. Im 14 and I started almost a year ago when I was almost 14 and it's because of an experience I had with my ex boyfriend who kind of turned me on to masturbation and sexting. After we broke up I wanted the feeling of being needed for pleasure again so I went online and started sexting on omegle.com and then I progressed to video sex which I do constantly, at least four or five times a day. The guys I do it with are much older than me, some 26 and 30. I have them on skype and I feel like they are some of my friends which is so wrong because I know that they are using me. I would really like to stop and I've tried countless times. If anyone has any advice, please respond to thus, it would mean a lot to me. Thanks
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Re: Addicted to video sex? - July 1st 2011, 05:52 AM


First, Masturbation is normal. It is nothing wrong.

Secondly, you should make it so you have no private time. Have friends and family around 24/7. Avoid being home alone. This will hopefully keep you from these situations. It is gainst the law for 26 year olds to see a 14 year old naked. It can get you both in trouble. (That being said if you are ever uncomftrable, contact the police. If YOU are the one to report it THEY will get in trouble)

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Re: Addicted to video sex? - July 1st 2011, 04:33 PM

Yeah, I agree with Justin. There's noting wrong with the masturbation, but video sex on public sites like omegle is actually illegal (I think...)

It's definitely illegal for 30 year old men to see you naked.

You could wean yourself off it. Like, instead of several times a day, do it once a day. Then once every 3 days. Then once a week. Then once a month if you still feel the need.

If you're horny in between video calls, then just pleasure yourself without being on the internet. Video yourself if you want, and play it back to you - then there's nobody else involved.

Masturbation is perfectly normal and healthy, but if it is making you unhappy, then try and limit yourself. The more often you masturbate, the more often you WANT to masturbate. If you can go a few days without it, you'll find the urge disappearing.

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Re: Addicted to video sex? - July 1st 2011, 05:43 PM

Thanks so much guys. I'll definitely try those methods.
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